In chinese there is a saying "if you don't have big head, don't wear a big hat" or something like that lar. my translation sucks. anyway, you get my point. most of the item you are doing it for the sake of luxury and not necessity. don't have enough money? skip the alarm, auto-gate, kitchen cabinet (why are u in the kitchen btw) and stuff like that. Those stuff you can always add on the next time you have spare cash. looking at your above post, i can see that you even swap your card for furniture so basically it's all "hutang". You'll be the slave for the bank for the next 10 years or so.

You case reminds me of my friend, he bought a single storey terrace house and he doesn't have much spare cash to do renovation but he insist to go all the way to install customize shoe rack, tv cabinet, wardrobe, alarm, expensive furniture, 5 freaking aircond! (3 on the rooms, 1 at the hall, 1 at the kitchen) and etc. Ended up emptying his bank account and have to go to the extent borrowing from his mother, few times. Seriously, it's not worth doing

Moving in into a new should be fun and joyful. Not stress and sad