phythia, i think it's all up to u n ur hb... if both of u r happy wif 1 then tutup kedai lo... i wanted 3 but my hb scared liao... a boy n a girl would b nice... yeah the cost of living is always on the rise but i dun like my boy to b all alone... he will have wife n kids on his own but wat abt the closest kin? but u'll have prob wif babysitter if u go for no 2

@phythia79

Maybe ur son is intelligent enough to get scolarship, then no need headache loo...

@sunflower808
I know all parents want to give their child the best in whatever. But how do we define Best? Sometimes, i feel that if the child get everything best during their childhood, they will not know how to appreciate it.

phythia, house husband?? wah actually we plan to tell our kids that we only supports them until sec sch... if they wanna go to uni they have to work for it... mayb u could think this way...

You worry too much. It's no point worrying over things that you cannot foresee.

What you can do is buy insurance for your kids with study fund. When the child is 21, there is a sum that can be taken out.

I did by this for my first child. But second child did not have it. Just thought maybe next time they can share the money and others.

I also wanted to have 3 kids. But due to lack of babysitter, had to forget about getting the third. I would say getting good babysitter is much more important than providing "the best".

wow dunno about u guys man...but all the one child people i know are WEIRDOS! @@
SOrry to say i am abit phobia of them.....2 of them nearly drove me nuts! Everyday need to pray that i stay SANE.

1 was my ex-colleague....he was a real pain in the arse and if u dont invite him for lunch, he will scold you saying what if we work in a place like Sepang, imagine how bad it would be that he will need to drive all the way out himself @@ This coming from a 36 years old man! Who still have his parents drag his luggages at the airport for him to our business trip together @@ And i have to clean after him because he have no manners to do his gentlemen duties like cleaning the plates away after makan. ANyway he got fired because apparently he drive the bosses nuts too......more than 10years of working experience, a junior like me have to train him how to do his work ;/ dont ask me how.....until today this remains a mystery.

2nd is a close relative @@
she wrote in a piece of paper to the neighbour "THIS IS MY PARKING SPACE".
Called us to remove our car if we happened to park at "HER SPACE".
For gawd sake...it is a PUBLIC ROAD! ANd it doesnt belongs to her!
And on CNY EVE....she came, sat and avoided eye contact with everybody.....and not even a HI to anyone on the table @@
If her hair long enuf, she would have covered her face then and there (She did this when she had her long hair, while drying the clothes one day, just to avoid her MIL.....as if that will make her invisible?? @@)
n when i got pregnant with my boy....she stopped talking to me n hubby entirely...cut him from fb also just like that. we suspect she jeles coz she wanted a boy instead of her baby gal?? dunno wat she is thinking la.....and then when i gave birth, my mil announced to her & her mom....she didnt say anything, and her mom replied, "GOOD LOR"
??? Is this how u congrats a close relative? 

ANyway...just few of the shocking stuffs these ONE CHILD people i know la.....no time to write so much rubbish
sorry if  this is normal...but i really cant stand it.....its NOT Normal to me 
& Of coz my other frens also got share similar one child stories of theirs too....which i wont put it down.

So to me.....please have 2 kids.....i think 1 kid might just drives the kid into dreamland/ownworld

PS: And of coz it doesn't applies to all one child... I m just saying there are possibilities of these kind of weird behaviors