phythia, i think it's all up to u n ur hb... if both of u r happy wif 1 then tutup kedai lo... i wanted 3 but my hb scared liao... a boy n a girl would b nice... yeah the cost of living is always on the rise but i dun like my boy to b all alone... he will have wife n kids on his own but wat abt the closest kin? but u'll have prob wif babysitter if u go for no 2

phythia, house husband?? wah actually we plan to tell our kids that we only supports them until sec sch... if they wanna go to uni they have to work for it... mayb u could think this way...