phythia79,

My husband and I did consider this during our family planning as we are just normal working adults. By normal means, we dont come from rich background or own big house / car / business.

My husband said if he can afford it, he plans to have 4. I was in some way happy to hear that but when I speak my mind, wanting 6, he fainted. When our friends hear it, they call us the Mao Zhe Dong mentality people!

Of course, we are worried about things financially too. As said above, we are just normal people. As mentioned by others, we cannot give them the best in everything. We have to teach them to jimat and there is always loans and scholarships. If you really want to, I'm sure there is a way.