Middle child syndrome, a very serious problem... very real too!
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 Jun 3 2011, 04:25 PM
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I think the age gap between the kids may also play a part in all this.. I mean, if there's a quite a close gap, you'd still be able to adapt better and the parents will still be able to pretty much even things out..
but if there's a bigger gap.. well.. |
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Jun 7 2011, 09:21 AM
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QUOTE(merchant9 @ Jun 4 2011, 01:25 AM) Actually I start this topic to understand others better. I have a colleague who suffer from this condition. Something petty of 20 years, cannot let go. Refer to my first post above. Maybe your colleague is the one being petty? I mean, we ALL have problems with our siblings, we fight, we scratch, we argue etc, WE ALL DO THAT. It's not something that's unique to just one family. Did my older sister do something to piss me off when I was little? Hell yeah. Does it still bug me when I think about it now? Sometimes (bad days etc), not ALL the time. Heck, she still pisses me off nowadays, and I am almost 30 with 2 kids of my own! I always adivce her to open her heart, discard the past but she like got so many grudges. Mouth keep saying love the siblings but heart like got so many unresolved issues. We thought 2 kids is little, considered 3 and freaked out by this syndrome so may have 4 provided financially can sustain!  Thing is, most of us, middle child or not, rise above that. What's stopping your colleague? |
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