From my perspective as a bf mom..i realised that when I was fully bf (during the 1st year), I didn't have the drive. However, recently, when i'm slowly cutting down on bf (i stopped pumping but still direct bf when I'm at home), i realised that my urges came back.

So..that's the feedback as a bf mom.

As for hubby..he just don't see boobs as boobs anymore..he sees it as his son's food..and..also other women's boobs..he sees it as food LOL

This post has been edited by phythia79: Jun 3 2011, 10:18 AM

I think those who don't decide to bf..with that reason..i think it's plain selfish. That's my point of view.

This post has been edited by phythia79: Jun 3 2011, 11:06 AM

on the lower sex drive..i did read somewhere (i can't recall now) that bf moms have lower sex drive due to the hormones.

I'll have to go look it up now.

ijnek..maybe you are the weird one hahahahahha

another thing i'll like to add..is that when i fully bf..i realised that i'm not well lubricated during sex too..so..that's another reason..why i don't have the drive.

Now..when i've reduced my bf sessions..i can see the difference.

it's old wives tales lar!!

It's just like saying..if u drink cow's milk..you'll start moo-ing LOL! Some ppl just believe everything. And all these old wives tales are just super ridiculous..

yeah..everytime forgot to buy..kekekek..so didn't use lor. but now better