Mummy and Daddy

If having breastfeeding for more than 1 year, how about the sex's life.
Any different?
Husband have any complaint?

i heard hubby will eventually lost interest in boobies after few kids^^

not true

really ah... i heard "waifu league" talkin bout their sex life after few years of marriage is diff compared right after marriage^^
they said their hubby kinda lost interest in boobies anymore, usually hubby juz go in, cum then sleep lolz^^

that is not really a boobies problem.

that is insensitive hubby problem

waifu facing such problems must "slap" hubby to make them wake up to the fact that waifu needs attention too.

find opportunity when hubby in good mood to bring up subject and have heart to heart talk about this.

if hubby still not interested then got "problem" already.

Lost interest to their waifu boobs only...

yeah, due to d boobies not as firm as it was maybe^^

From my perspective as a bf mom..i realised that when I was fully bf (during the 1st year), I didn't have the drive. However, recently, when i'm slowly cutting down on bf (i stopped pumping but still direct bf when I'm at home), i realised that my urges came back.

So..that's the feedback as a bf mom.

As for hubby..he just don't see boobs as boobs anymore..he sees it as his son's food..and..also other women's boobs..he sees it as food LOL

This post has been edited by phythia79: Jun 3 2011, 10:18 AM

i lost the interest.. dunno why
feel like the boobs become my princess food..
or maybe she become fat

When "making love" hubby was not suck your boobs? issit the milk will come out right? then what the happening actually?

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Added on June 3, 2011, 10:39 amNow, i can understand why nowsaday woman was not decide to give breastfeeding to their child.....


This post has been edited by sunflower808: Jun 3 2011, 10:39 AM

phythia, i tot i was the weird one... i oso lost the lust desire...

I think those who don't decide to bf..with that reason..i think it's plain selfish. That's my point of view.

This post has been edited by phythia79: Jun 3 2011, 11:06 AM

probably when you breastfeed, hubby wont be touching your breast... can be several reasons.

1. when pressing (force), the milk might come out, thus causing some inconvenience during sex time.
2. when boob become soft, probably the husband just touching it without sucking it.
3. hubby think the breast for son/daughter food, thus dont want to mess it up.

other reason probably due to hubby, he might want to have quickie - fast do and sleep.

Breastfeeding is good for both the mother AND the child. It is THE recommended infant food by WHO, as well as MOH here. And I sincerely do not believe it has anything to do with lowered interest in having sex. Most likely, on the male side, not in mood due to work/stress/same-old-same-old in bed all the time/etc; female side due to work/stress/baby/family/friend/household/same-old-same-old in bed all the time/etc. It's something that does not really come into the picture 'right after marriage' and 'before giving birth'. It's the adjustment both sides need to do in order to get back to the once 'romantic newly wed' mood that's difficult.

Lots of tips to be found via your good ol' GOOGLE. Go look it up.

on the lower sex drive..i did read somewhere (i can't recall now) that bf moms have lower sex drive due to the hormones.

I'll have to go look it up now.

u gals hv weird hubbies.

lol

i like it...my wife's boobs r bigger, milk is good for health although a little messy but fun......

ya...my wife's boobs r food, MY comfort food!!!

LoL

other womens' boobs u say?...those don't belong to me...

ijnek..maybe you are the weird one hahahahahha

phythia, i second to u abt ijnek

There's a solid reason why breastfeeding mom's sex drive is going down the toilet.

Google up the relationship between dopamine and prolactin

hahaha

my hubby ok wor.. happy.... baby food = his food also =.=

Lol.i think its all subjective.depend on personal mind

Yalah....hope all the hubby will understand the wife giving BF lah!

BF is really not easy, and it's very very very really benefit to your baby........
not everyone also can continued to BF .....

another thing i'll like to add..is that when i fully bf..i realised that i'm not well lubricated during sex too..so..that's another reason..why i don't have the drive.

Now..when i've reduced my bf sessions..i can see the difference.

Husband can drink wife breast milk one meh??Won't get any side effect??Like mental degrade back to 2 years old

I heard that too....said adult was not suitable to having BM one....
anyone know the reason?

it's old wives tales lar!!

3 baby is the max, then you'll lose interest.

i know it from my many experience watching mature video.

is not easy to be bf mummy, even thou I not a mother yet ....................

This post has been edited by LadyInRedOne: Jun 8 2011, 07:15 AM

Pls check first the info before simply said...there is no such things!!!

It's just like saying..if u drink cow's milk..you'll start moo-ing LOL! Some ppl just believe everything. And all these old wives tales are just super ridiculous..

Aiya.... zoakies no need to be so angry mah.......
she just simply said only....

girls, lol
i'm tryin to cheer u ladies up.
at no point in time ur hubby should b look at ur body parts and think it's food...
that's degrading...

but u gals r rite abt the lubricatin part...
there's always gels u can use...lol...

yeah..everytime forgot to buy..kekekek..so didn't use lor. but now better