Here my story:

My parent only have us 2 child, me the youngest and my elder sister. My parents are more pamper my sister rather than me. Since I do not get pampered, i rarely communicate with my parents since young and always thought want to away from this family when im independent. Because i do not get anything i like during kids but my elder sister that got whatever she fancy. Till i study college, i work part time to buy stuff that i like. At times, i went to overseas for my further studies and indeed i had stayed overseas for abt 2 years and do not come back because i want to earn money for myself.Some how rather i back to malaysia after 2 years and get a job here.

When i back to malaysia, i did have a big quarrel with my parents and finally sound out my dissatisfaction that my parents favoured my sister only after kept in my heart for 23 years. I still remember the situation especially my dad was with a stun face because these years i am a quiet child. I had a cold war for few month with my mum. Since, then i get a job from other state which away from where my parents staying which again i choose to away from my parents. I only back hometown occasionally. Hence, my sister stay just next house of my parents after got married.

In my younger age, i always feel there is always a GAP between me and my parents which the gap is my sister.

Somehow, later on my relationship with my parents had closed the gap after my mum send me a text msg saying "i missed you".
Now i already @ my 30's. I do not bother all those favourite child and i just do what should do as a son.

I will pour the same love to all my child though whether my wife will favour which child. Because i don't want my child to have same experience and feeling like me.

This post has been edited by Gary1981: Jun 3 2011, 12:13 PM

1.) Maybe due to my sister too rely on my mum. Thats why after married also stay next door
2.) Now later age do not bother what i thought off during kids. Just do what a responsible as a son..

Somehow, i would think parents shouldn't have favourite child and this may affect their childhood growth. I'm yet be a father and hope i will equally love all my kids in future.