That is what I learned. I initially thought with time, patience, love and understanding, people can change for the better. **** it la. I was too naive and innocent.

This post has been edited by RedShirt: Apr 29 2011, 02:13 PM

And we get burnt in the process.
All part of growing up.

Ahaha. This is so true.
Now I am back to running in the parks and hitting the gym. So not fun and unmotivating.

I should get a new gf soon.

This post has been edited by RedShirt: Apr 29 2011, 02:19 PM

Very true. I would not say that my previous relationship was all bad because I learnt a lot of things, about expectations and requirements. My thinking has matured a lot since then as you start to realise that it is not all just about yourself but also people around you.

Too bad there isn't a Like button in this forum, I like your signature a lot, very meaningful.

You know, to exercise with her lor.

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Added on April 29, 2011, 2:32 pmUh...waii ?

This post has been edited by RedShirt: Apr 29 2011, 02:32 PM

Yeah. Sometimes, there are things which you cannot see or notice unless someone is kind enough to point it out to you and to make you learn from that mistake.

If it is off-balance, then difficult.


Give and take, there must be a balance between the two.
But the main thing is that that person must be willing to learn and accept criticism with an open mind.

I was not trying to make that person change to suit myself but the change is to improve herself personally.
Stubborn people will go thinking that we want to change them for ourselves. These are the people who fails to understand.


Noooooooooooo......

Thats right. I gave up when all she can see and think is that I am trying to change her because I want her to be that way. Her mind is closed and she can't see things the way people should see it.

You're mature.

Just need to remember not to allow emotion to control you and say things which you don't mean it. Words said are impossible to retract unless that person understands you well enough to allow it to slip by. But you can't expect people to take all the crap just because you're upset, that is just plain selfish.

Just like a crocodile, it may have hard skin but its inside are still made of flesh and blood. A short blunt knife may not hurt it but words will.....if it understands English. lol.

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Added on April 29, 2011, 3:35 pmWassup panguin.

This post has been edited by RedShirt: Apr 29 2011, 03:35 PM

Hmm ?

Sorry la bro, the pig and the penguin weren't around before so the only animal I thought of was you lor. You like or not ?

Yeah, that happens a lot.

I do ? I am not, really.




Sorry if I constructed my sentence as though I am saying that you're horrible. Just plain advices after climbing out from the hell-hole that I was trapped.

Yeah, thats right. I suppose it is good to learn from one's mistake so that it can be avoided in the future.

I am a bit emo.
But no point frying someone I don't even know over the internet. Just sharing some thoughts.

Sorry again ya if I sounded horrible.

Yeah, feel free to contribute lor. Everyday is a learning process.

Wa....royalty pulak.
I RIP OFF YOUR SKIN AND USE AS MY SHOES AND WALLET.

Luckily for you, I do not sarpork and anti using crocodile skin for these items. I am only using leather.

Penguin cute leh. I love watching the movie Happy Feet. So happy animals. Makes me happy too.

One thing I noticed is that your body language and the tone of your voice affects this as well.
When she raises her voice or throw her arms around, it is not a discussion, it is more of an argument. We don't like to enter into an argument with the female because chances are, we will never win.

At least cool down and make sure you're rational and calm before opening on the issue and start the discussion.

Animation like Happy Feet ?

When my ex went berserk, I went and watch Happy Feet alone to cheer myself up.
Thank you guin.

All the crocs usually die in the end.

But that is in the past already. No need to cry myself to sleep can liao. Now better lor.
Thanks to Happy Feet. See penguin walk so funnily makes me enjoice. See them sing and dance, even more enjoice.


Well, if can, try to control and refrain from slamming things down lor. It is rather aggresive in my opinion. It is like starting off with the wrong foot in a "discussion".

I was actually imagining you moving your hands like . LOLOL.
Just be calm and rational. Focus on the topic you want to talk about. Don't bring back n-age stuff to remind him about this and that too.

4 minutes till after office hours.
I am going to watch Thor. No one ajak yesterday. I r sad.

This post has been edited by RedShirt: Apr 29 2011, 04:43 PM

Aiyo, now only you tell me. South Pole is not Seremban leh. Even if it is in Seremban, it is still far. Too late liao jor.
Next time I go watch movie, I ajak you ?

Leaving office now to avoid traffic jam.

HARRR. You also ? Better dunwan ajak you. Later you reject me by ignoring me again. So cham me.
Also, I don't want crocodile to eat me.

This post has been edited by RedShirt: Apr 29 2011, 04:52 PM

That time I got ask if you want to watch Red Riding Hood ma. Asking you about venue or suitable time, you never choi me liao. I am not that desperate to pester you and don't want to make you uncomfortable lor.

Yeah, I heard that he is a HK-species croc but I worried he will swim to Mareshia and bite my ass.

Seems like happy ending already but why "ex's house" ?

This post has been edited by RedShirt: Apr 29 2011, 05:06 PM

Hee.

Ya, scary buaya.

Thor is THORrific. Nais movie.

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Added on April 29, 2011, 11:14 pmWait for so long after. The movie ended to see preview for the next superhero movie, nothing much, only show stupid Loki. What is that box about ar? Transformers meh?

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Added on April 29, 2011, 11:16 pmOrganic food ? Expensive

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