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 phase of baby growing up, is it true ?

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TSpigglet
post Mar 19 2011, 10:23 AM, updated 15y ago

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hi,i'm really stress out..lately my 10 month old girl been crying alot and doesnt want to be left alot awhile.example i put her down on her cot for awhile to pee she starts crying as if someone beat her.this been stressing me out,but according to my hubby he said is the phase that they are growing up.But as far as i can remember last time my youngest uncle had his 1st child,when his 1st child was same age as my daughter,his child wasnt like the way how my daughter is acting right now.is it due to they way how our parenting or is just a phase off my daughter growing up.i hate arguing with my hubby that is a the parenting that is wrong.and she likes to scream when she doesnt like things that we give her..i tried scolding her she still scream.im so stress rclxub.gif
TSpigglet
post Mar 19 2011, 07:04 PM

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QUOTE(Joey Christensen @ Mar 19 2011, 11:54 AM)
The importance of scent and sight of the mother from the baby's perspective. It's not parenting at fault. I believe you are the one that is attending to your baby's needs most of the time, right? The baby "recognise" your presence by scent and sight of you. There's no point scolding your daughter. She's just 10 months old...

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yea i full time taking care of her..


Added on March 19, 2011, 7:07 pm
QUOTE(grinner @ Mar 19 2011, 11:59 AM)
As a father of 4, I can -suggest- it's just a phase... some babies go through it when they are younger (~7 mths) while some don't go through it... always remember that all babies are different so don't compare what other babies went through to your own. According to my forum, babies do not understand yet that when you are out of his/her sight, you are still around i.e. they think you have disappeared. They will grow out of this phase, so please tell your hubby not to kick a fuss over who or what is wrong. At this age it might be wise to start discplining though. If she screams when she does not like something, just take the item away and say a firm No. Don't scold like the old-fashioned parent, please, does no good. First 10 times (or fifty) times might not work, but they will get the message that there is a line. Set the line early on and you will have much less headaches later on.

Best of luck with your bundle of joy smile.gif
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we tried doing that but she scold her us back rclxub.gif as if shes not afraid of me n my hubby..anyways thanks for the advise

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