Mar 19 2011, 10:44 AM
QUOTE(pigglet @ Mar 19 2011, 10:23 AM)
hi,i'm really stress out..lately my 10 month old girl been crying alot and doesnt want to be left alot awhile.example i put her down on her cot for awhile to pee she starts crying as if someone beat her.this been stressing me out,but according to my hubby he said is the phase that they are growing up.But as far as i can remember last time my youngest uncle had his 1st child,when his 1st child was same age as my daughter,his child wasnt like the way how my daughter is acting right now.is it due to they way how our parenting or is just a phase off my daughter growing up.i hate arguing with my hubby that is a the parenting that is wrong.and she likes to scream when she doesnt like things that we give her..i tried scolding her she still scream.im so stress 
You are not alone...my son is the same. He wouldn't let me out of his sight ever! Even from when he was your daughter's age (or younger) till now! He's 1 yr 8 months and will have to see me wherever...even when i shower, i have to leave the door open. Sigh..so i don't have even my 'own' time.Please do remember that all children are different. Even my mom said that we (my siblings and I) are sooo different than my son...my son is very active..can't sit still..craves for attention. It's definitely not the parenting skill (unless the parents always give in to the children's qualms and fancy..then it's a different story). I think..screaming is her way to 'voice' out her frustration. Not that you should give in...but maybe tell her in a firm way (not scolding as you know she will scream) or plain ignore her. I do that to my son..if he's not behaving well..i'll ignore him till he behaves better. Of coz..there are times that I lose my temper too...it's perfectly normal.
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