Its kinda hard to avoid the war factor in games situated under the rts genre especially with the specifics of seeing the peasant or workers to go cut the wood and collecting berries.

You might be interested in the rise of nations if you haven't tried it before.

Others, like age of empires series, rise of legends, majesty series and etc all fall under the war factor and they do have resources gathering mechanism.

Other than what you've mention like anno and stronghold, the best bet would be some really old games in the stronghold era.