If you had conceive, congrats...

I think its better not to stress yourself too much and rest as much as possible during early stages of pregnancy. My wife also tends to sleep much more during the first few months. Eat well is also important as it helps the baby development. Be sure to keep a happy state of mind and dont freak out too much over small matters. First timer always tend to freak out whenever they encounter some strange but normal things in early pregnancy like spotting etc.