"most people might think why dont i go after my colleague, after get my colleague ady then only break with my gf... well, i find it very disrespectful towards my girl if i did that when my gf is still with me. "

I do respect.

Actually, I have a 10 years relationship been betray by my x gf ...almost similar case but i'm the victim been betray by her ...

Honestly, I agree that u give her a ring and ask for forgiveness ...

QUOTE(aellynne @ Feb 24 2011, 04:17 PM)
ya totally..that's y i say many of these kind of guys are jerks ..when they want you thry try all means to get you..when they bored ady they just dump u aside

+1 - totally agree, it happens to gals too

bro valex,
nice that you patch up with your gf
good luck