Feb 24 2011, 11:52 AM
QUOTE(n00b13 @ Feb 24 2011, 01:45 AM)
You are quite teh stupid.
I'll tell you how stupid you were. When you started having feelings for your colleague, that's your problem. You should have solved your problem on your own. But when you told your girlfriend about it, you made it her problem as well, and you spread your suffering to an innocent person. If you wanted to, you could have broken off with your gf to pursue your colleague, and yes, that would hurt your gf. But what you did hurt her even more, for a longer time.
And there's another way in which you are teh stupid. You had a 3 years' relationship, and you jeopardized it for a colleague? You've never made a move on her, she didn't try to seduce you, she has no idea how you feel about her, she doesn't know a thing about all your drama? She might as well be the kakak behind the counter of the cafeteria where you order lunch every day. This is what you fall for? For this you ruined a 3-year relationship?
My aunt changes car every few years. My dad thinks she's quite foolish and wasteful. My dad is right. But a car is not a girlfriend, which means you are even more teh stupid. 3 years hancur just because got new pretty face in the office. As if girlfriend is like car, bored already want to change new one.
I'll give you credit for one thing - you had the balls to break off with your girlfriend. Because your problem should not become other people's problem. Too bad you did it too late, after you've already hurt her badly. So now, I suggest you learn to solve your own problem before you get into another situation in which you might hurt other people.
(And frankly, I'm not very impressed with your ex-gf either. I can't respect a girl who begs a guy to love her.)
though you may seem kinda mean to call TS stupid, but someone has to point it out I guess.I'll tell you how stupid you were. When you started having feelings for your colleague, that's your problem. You should have solved your problem on your own. But when you told your girlfriend about it, you made it her problem as well, and you spread your suffering to an innocent person. If you wanted to, you could have broken off with your gf to pursue your colleague, and yes, that would hurt your gf. But what you did hurt her even more, for a longer time.
And there's another way in which you are teh stupid. You had a 3 years' relationship, and you jeopardized it for a colleague? You've never made a move on her, she didn't try to seduce you, she has no idea how you feel about her, she doesn't know a thing about all your drama? She might as well be the kakak behind the counter of the cafeteria where you order lunch every day. This is what you fall for? For this you ruined a 3-year relationship?
My aunt changes car every few years. My dad thinks she's quite foolish and wasteful. My dad is right. But a car is not a girlfriend, which means you are even more teh stupid. 3 years hancur just because got new pretty face in the office. As if girlfriend is like car, bored already want to change new one.
I'll give you credit for one thing - you had the balls to break off with your girlfriend. Because your problem should not become other people's problem. Too bad you did it too late, after you've already hurt her badly. So now, I suggest you learn to solve your own problem before you get into another situation in which you might hurt other people.
(And frankly, I'm not very impressed with your ex-gf either. I can't respect a girl who begs a guy to love her.)
I have to agree with the things which you had pointed out, really.
Hopefully TS will learn from this.
Relationships are never a simple thing because it involves people's emotions which are never easy to control at times.
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