try to look for down syndrome support group and centers. My son have asperger's syndrome. I understand how hard it is to take care of such a kid. Especially down syndrome which not much help you can get from malaysia government. Good luck.

can I know is this 40+ DS person independent? Does he have a job? What happen when the mom has passed on?

Why does she refuse? The child need to learn how to do everything from as simple as going to toilet to using utensils to eat. All these need to be taught. Professionals should be able to advise on that. You can also get her to join parents support group where parents can exchange information. This is very good in building confidence for the parents and also lessen the burden.

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Added on February 24, 2011, 2:50 pmBy independent means he is able to also work for a living and do not need any direct help. I think this is the main concern for all parents with special child. If he cannot get a job or work, then the parent need to start arranging for ways make sure the child can continue living when they are gone. Like getting help from siblings or relatives.

This post has been edited by abubin: Feb 24 2011, 02:50 PM

dyslexia is being not able to read properly. Like mixing up between b and d, getting alphabets in reversed order.

This can be remedied easily in early childhood through proper training.

BTW...how do one find out if one has a chromosome that is slightly shorter?

i wouldn't say it is something sad. But rather an obstacle in life. A big obstacle. However you just need to make the best out of it and not feel "sad" about it.

so what if down syndrome are diagnosed during prenancy? There are no cure for it. Does that means you would want to abort the baby?

Here is a shoutout for parents or people to contribute to the autism society.

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1788449

Please help to donate and create awareness.