QUOTE(debbieyss @ Apr 8 2011, 09:19 AM)
I know your reply doesn't refer to me but I would like to share my view.
I never blame God for what had happened to me, big problem or small problem. All I do is through prayer, move His hand to restore things to be better.
The thing is when things don't turn out after you have put your faith in, but more and more problems coming out, you might wonder if it's God's will, and you might wonder if your prayers are not pleasing, or something wrong with your prayers. And whenever you see your christian fellows, or even non-christians, getting what they want, you might want to do something and ask from God giving you the same. Please take note, things that I refer to now is not straight As in SPM or STPM or CGPA or entering which top Uni or big company, I'm merely asking for a simple family. That's all.
If you did trace back the post I shared a little bit earlier on, check out the website and see how many women out there, faithfully and genuinely loving their husbands, having intimate relationship since their dating stage but out of a sudden, after 5 years of marriage, their husbands have affair with another women, some husbands even shifted out and left the children behind.
If this husband is predestined to betray the wife, why would God allows them to get married? Have you seen people who face too much of stress and disappointments and in the end they cry fainted and go insane?
I would rather my life go simple, than to have a very blessed and wonderful beginning but in the end huge disappointment, like a huge rock drops on your body.
The higher you have faith in something, the painful you feel. Some people who are proud and stubborn, little bit of failure will boost up their motivation to grow, but to those who are having simple life all along, these disappointments are just too much for them to bear, which is not helpful in moulding a person's life.
First of all, keep in mind that salvation means we are free of the penalty of sin. After salvation, we have to work to be free from the power of sin.I never blame God for what had happened to me, big problem or small problem. All I do is through prayer, move His hand to restore things to be better.
The thing is when things don't turn out after you have put your faith in, but more and more problems coming out, you might wonder if it's God's will, and you might wonder if your prayers are not pleasing, or something wrong with your prayers. And whenever you see your christian fellows, or even non-christians, getting what they want, you might want to do something and ask from God giving you the same. Please take note, things that I refer to now is not straight As in SPM or STPM or CGPA or entering which top Uni or big company, I'm merely asking for a simple family. That's all.
If you did trace back the post I shared a little bit earlier on, check out the website and see how many women out there, faithfully and genuinely loving their husbands, having intimate relationship since their dating stage but out of a sudden, after 5 years of marriage, their husbands have affair with another women, some husbands even shifted out and left the children behind.
If this husband is predestined to betray the wife, why would God allows them to get married? Have you seen people who face too much of stress and disappointments and in the end they cry fainted and go insane?
I would rather my life go simple, than to have a very blessed and wonderful beginning but in the end huge disappointment, like a huge rock drops on your body.
The higher you have faith in something, the painful you feel. Some people who are proud and stubborn, little bit of failure will boost up their motivation to grow, but to those who are having simple life all along, these disappointments are just too much for them to bear, which is not helpful in moulding a person's life.
So whether you are single or married, we will still be tempted with lust. Husbands are not predestined to betray their wife. It's their choice.
Remember free will. It's like you know your best friend is dating a jerk. You can advise her all you want but if she chooses to marry him, that's up to her. God works in the same way. He shows you and guides you away from the bad stuff. If you choose to ignore Him and still do it, that's up to you.
So with regards to marriage, whoever you choose to marry is your own choice. God won't stop you. If you happen to marry an unfaithful person, you will have to live with the consequences. That's why also in the Bible, we are discouraged from marrying non-believers. Not that they are bad, but our faith might be jeopardized.
That's why I like my pastor's advice: When you are dating, look with both eyes open wide. Whe you are married, keep one eye close. Dating is when you evaluate whether you want to spend the rest of your life with that person. Marriage is living with him/her and working to make the relationship work.
Apr 8 2011, 09:51 AM

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