QUOTE(Alvin330000421 @ Nov 26 2012, 11:35 AM)
Nope.
Its called subconscious preparation to deal with future political occurences.
This is a learning situation for me and the youth pastor alike. So next time I come across this type of situation, I know how to deal with it.
For example, when I got involve in a music ministry, I detected the same clickish politics as that I dealt with at that youth church. So I pulled out. I learn from this, to choose those ministries that are most compatible to my talents and my interests. Also I am able to enjoy the company and enjoy wider cooperation.
From there, I also was able to learn how to deal with people. After that bad experience, I went to another church and decided to behave more conservatively. In the past, I have an open speaking kind of character. I like to talk to people and befriend people. Now I have learn to be careful because it may incur political backlash. When i went to the new church, I became timid and quiet but not anti social. Only speak when there is a chance, don't make myself open too far out. And from thereon, after 10 years at this church, I have gotten well with others.
If we just learn to forgive, forgive. And not go into the underlying reasons then we just go into another myriad of conflicts with other people, not realising what is the underlying cause. WHich is of course, political motivation.
You must learn to forgive and how to deal with the situation better.
You can'[t forget something like this. You must know how to let past experiences shape better in your decision making and getting along with others.
You can never forget because it will happen to you ! The Devil will surely put you through another situation or trial like this. You must face it ! And conquer it !
Dude. Shut the f*ck up. "Subconscious preparation to deal with future political occurences"?
Bullsh*t.
If you weren't unforgiving subconsciously in the first place, why would there be a need to prepare for future politics at church? Are you trying to say that you are not even the least being emotionally motivated to think about being "prepared"?
You also said:
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"If we just learn to forgive, forgive. And not go into the underlying reasons then we just go into another myriad of conflicts with other people, not realising what is the underlying cause. WHich is of course, political motivation."
Another self-conjured bullsh*t.
Let me give you something that you already know. You wanna know what is the underlying cause?
They are SINNERS like YOU. You know, similar to the one in the MIRROR too?
That is the cause. If you think that they indeed have problems with you, why wouldn't you go to them to clear things up HONESTLY? Are you that SUPERIOR to others that you think that THEY MUST COME TO YOU instead? If you think you have done nothing wrong, why not talk to them about it? Why is your bitterness towards them not clarifying things with you?
Where do you think POLITICS come from? Of course there will be politics! It is human nature, and plenty of them aren't all that kind and benevolent. It is inevitable. And it is inevitable, because sin is inevitable. And you begin to think that they are lesser than you in SINNING, then ALL THE PROBLEMS YOU HAVE BEEN COMPLAINING ABOUT, have no one to be blamed for except for the one in the MIRROR. Go ahead. Look into the mirror and boast that you have every right to blame them, and that you are blameless in the ordeal that you are referring to.
Do it now. Boast in front to of the mirror until you remember this verse:
"Please forgive them father, for they know not what they do", as His hands were nailed shut into the cross.
So shut the f*ck up, and if you think you know what you are worth, go get it. But you must be willing to understand that you are a sinner walking the path of life with other sinners, and until you UNDERSTAND the IMPORTANCE of the FORIGVENESS given to HUMANITY and to YOU by the One who died on the Cross, you will continue to b*tch about your problems, blaming and pointing fingers at everyone else BUT YOURSELF.
COWARD.
This post has been edited by Deadlocks: Nov 27 2012, 01:54 PM