interesting...

what is?

I dun agree wif you.

I am a christian and my wife is not will not hinder my walk with god and destroy me. If this is the case then that person is a weak christian.

I want to go to church and my wife doesnt want to go to church. I can go to church by myself and she can go to her own religion place of worship. Whats the point of forcing your partner to go to chruch when they dont really want to?

I believe in God doesnt mean i have to force others to believe in my God. If other dont believe in my God doesnt mean it will destroy me.

The reason u give is just a failed relationship using religion as an excuse.

Wintersun,

Are you speaking from personal experience?

no lol

Indeed, you have a doctrinal theory of your "strongness" ....

Being in a marital relationship ... you don't know how binding it is ....

As if, going to meeting is such a "strong thing" ..... the day God called you to raise up a church in a rural place ... then that is something .. XD when you have a wife+kids ...

Marriage Between Christians and Non Believers/Other Faith.

If you have a choice to choose, it's better to choose to marry a Christian Wife or Husband of the same faith. Why?



Marriage is a union between Man and Woman not only on the physical level but on a spiritual level as well.

Marriage is not about you and your spouse. It's involves the entire Family and that would include your parents and your in laws.

You must understand there are age old strong traditions when it comes to unbelievers Marriage ceremony.

The bible is clear when it says Do not be yoked for a simple reason. When it comes to conflict of religion, it may create disharmony in the family.

If your potential wife/husband is a staunch Buddhists/Hindu/Moslem/etc, her belief system may conflict with yours in almost every matter.

In Christianity we believe in one God, there's Heaven and there's Hell.

In your home if your spouse have an altar to a deity or gods, and you are the temple of our Lord, don't you think that is like almost BF3/MW3/COD in the spiritual realm everyday? LoL.

You will be in emotional conflict and anguished if your potential wife/husband refuse to budge from her belief. It gets worse when you have children. She/He may insist that your children remains as a Buddhists/Hindu/Moslem/etc. You love your wife and children with unconditional love and the thoughts of them ending in Hell if they refuse to believe in the Lord, will torment you.

That's not all, If your in laws is of different faith, you may have problems with matters like Funerals, Ancestor worships, etc.

If your extended Family is constantly in dispute with your faith, you may have stress and a potentially rocky marriage.

Question is are you willing to go through all these ordeals?

Now I am not saying all these problem will materialize 100%. These are all but potential problems which Our Lord knows and it's better to avoid for your sanity sake.

It's hard to see all these when you're in Love with someone. I know how it feels.

But I believe God can bring your potential Wife and Husband to be to meet you in your life.

Is such a thing too hard for the most powerful being in the Universe?

Anyway, I hope this helps to clear up.

God Bless.

then can u intro some good christian guy to me?
maybe God want use u as a chanel to meet me n him?

It usually happens when you least expect it to happen.

I'll pray in agreement for you for your other half to meet you.

God Bless.

p.s: I'm not a good match maker.

This post has been edited by unknown warrior: Mar 30 2012, 11:12 PM

yeah..pls help me pray for a good life partner..

i c so many unhapy couple oso scare..

GBU too..

there's no such thing as a perfect couple.

As long you understand nobody is perfect and you're willing to put up
with the person's flaw and still love Him, you will have no problems in relationship.

Flaw as in not physical abuse or extreme stuff.

thx bro help me pray..

what is the correct way to pray?

Whatever that's in your heart.

The correct way to pray is your earnest prayer which is really what you want to say.

There's no need for pretence and there's no need to for long winded prayers with all the impressive Church language or jargon.

When you pray make sure it's not to impress others or to be heard to show you're religiously pious.

When you pray, do it behind close doors in your room or in private (unseen) elsewhere because our Heavenly Father rewards those who pray in this manner.

Before you pray, believe that your prayer WILL be answered. That is faith*. At the same time, Give God the right that his WILL is more important and supersede yours. (That means even if the answer is a NO, you'll accept it). Don't misunderstand by this you will be discourage. A No now may not be a No Later. It's all about his timing.

*Faith = being sure of what we hope for and being certain of what we do not see with our eyes. (Hebrews 11:1)

Below is basically an example.

My Heavenly Father, Lord you are the Lord of Heaven and of Earth.
Lord you know all things and you work ALL things together for my good.
I praise you dear God for your plans will be eternally good for me.

Lord if you are willing, I pray that you will bring the right person into my life to be my Life Partner in Friendship first and later in Marriage.

God give me a sign that if this is the person whom you have chosen,

Let Him/Her show great interest in me, let there be wisdom and peace in my heart to know that He/She is the right one,

Let him be a person of integrity, kind, humble, fun loving, tall, dark, handsome (insert your own requirement...), etc.

I commit this prayer into your hands and let your Will be done over mine.

In Jesus Name I pray.





Hope this helps.

God Bless.

This post has been edited by unknown warrior: Apr 1 2012, 12:29 AM

One more thing.

Prayer is not releasing your words to God and expect it NOT to happen.

This is one problem people have.

For a simple reason.

If you already expect it's not going to happen.

God is just going to honour that.




If your faith says no, then it's a no

if your faith says yes, God will answer.

be firm in your faith.

Amen?

This post has been edited by unknown warrior: Apr 1 2012, 12:39 AM

LOL this is epic, i always include this in my prayer item few years back but nahhh, i know HE doesnt want me to have a partner yet so i stopped praying for that. i always wonder why some people like to be so ngam cam while my prayer only 2 sentence for each request

IMO,

2 sentences is still prayer.

That is exactly why, we are called to seek God and his kingdom first so that we don't get caught up or distracted by our desires because we have one too many desires to be honest.

And It really depends, sometimes we are led by the Holy Spirit in prayer and can be dramatic with tears and all that.

IMO, In your quiet time or private time with God, it's nothing wrong really.

God honours a good conversation when you spend time with him. Too few words doesn't cut it at time.


But when you pray for others in the company of believers in Church or anywhere, 2 sentences is still as effective as 20 sentences.

This post has been edited by unknown warrior: Apr 1 2012, 12:58 AM

Unknown warrior, what's your opinion on gay marriages.

Gay is not a new age thing, it's old but It's also not right.

The Bible is clear that homosexuality is a sin.

But there is hope.

God is more than able to deliver the bondage of homosexuality.

God can heal those who are gay and restore them to order of natural sexuality.

This post has been edited by unknown warrior: Apr 1 2012, 01:35 PM