we co-sleep too... coz like u, bf n nurse to sleep... i know he couldn't sleep on his own... he needs human pacifier to sleep... he even rejects plastic pacifier... should i b happy or sad? we have a small bed for him at the side against the wall... plus we've line the wall wif some soft toys so he won't feel the cold wall... our bed is higher than his... again dun have to worry abt him falling... n plenty of space to "play" around... sometimes if i remember/not too tired/din fall asleep/ we wanna "play", then i move him to his bed when he's fast asleep...

qarezma, good for u~! we tried to wean him off when he was 3 weeks old... tried the cry it out method... end up kenot bear to c him cry his heart out when he's so young... i myself co-sleep until 14 yrs old... coz no room for me...

qarezma, singing? nope won't work... he'll b happier n more energetic coz he tot we're toking to him at the meantime i just luv him being close to me... coz now he's still a baby... i can do watever i want *evil laugh* when he's older he'll rebel liao...

phythia, syd, snuggle ar? mana ade? if he's fast asleep his two arms will b wide open... basically conquered most of my side of the bed... i or baby sleep at the edge of the bed coz change side bf... of coz i'll put a big bolster to prevent him from falling to his own bed due to unbalanced height...

qarezma, phythia, snuggle up i assume the baby is in the middle la?ur hbs not jealous ka? i just sang abc... but he just want to suck

auhckw, i oso kena attack at nite when he wakes up...

phythia, qarezma, u guys sing non-stop n repeat until either of u asleep?

merchant, u put baby tummy to tummy is it?

qarezma, i've been nursing side by side since birth... so i think he's used to it already... i've tried feeding n holding him in cradle position then tried to put on his bed... dun want... woke up the minute i put him down... yesterday i tried singing again... he gave me this i want quiet pls kind of sound... but i'm getting worried if it's going to b hard to wean of this nursing side by side...

qarezma, no tension la... luv the way baby now... yesterday me n hb just said... another few more yrs we'll miss hugging his small body against ours i was hoping he'll wean on his own

mummies n daddies, u guys put any mattress protection when co sleep?