Losing Temper
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 Jan 14 2011, 06:29 PM
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4,390 posts Joined: Oct 2004 From: Cheras, Malaysia   
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Small toddle doesn't understand whole sentence, eg: when you say
Do not touch, he/she might miss out the do not and hence why you are headahce. Toddle are better to be told exactly and percisely using simple sentence what is expected. Sharing my read from the sun parenting column |
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Jan 15 2011, 12:16 AM
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QUOTE(auhckw @ Jan 4 2011, 02:28 PM) I think the monster in them is released when they start learning how to walk. That is when they will grab everything, upside down your bag, etc my baby 18 months old, believe it or not we've to call bomba twice to rescue her, I duno if I'm a bad mom or shes a monsterMine when he is b4 walking mode is so much easier to take care...  |
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Jan 15 2011, 09:09 AM
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QUOTE(moorish @ Jan 15 2011, 12:16 AM) my baby 18 months old, believe it or not we've to call bomba twice to rescue her, I duno if I'm a bad mom or shes a monster Wah... what she did that needs to call bomba? |
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Jan 15 2011, 10:10 AM
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QUOTE(auhckw @ Jan 15 2011, 09:09 AM) Wah... what she did that needs to call bomba? once lock herself in the car with the engine off at jusco - 14 mths oldanother was this month lock herself in the masterbedroom - 18 mths old |
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Jan 15 2011, 05:31 PM
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QUOTE(moorish @ Jan 15 2011, 10:10 AM) once lock herself in the car with the engine off at jusco - 14 mths old another was this month lock herself in the masterbedroom - 18 mths old  |
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Jan 17 2011, 03:48 PM
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QUOTE(auhckw @ Jan 3 2011, 11:53 AM) I bought him toys, he likes the paper wrapper more. I feel your suffering but its a sweet one haha I bought him the toy that can assist him to push and walk, he prefers to use our cheapo stool instead. I bought him nice table toy, he plays with pail or bowl instead. I ask him not to chew rubber band, he seems to like it even more. I ask him to hold my hand while he is learning to walk, but he doesn't want and keep falling down. He don't understand the word No, but he understands the word 'Kai Kai' (Go out), 'Mum Mum' (Food), 'Tv Tv' (Cartoon). After recovering from 1 weeks+ sick with no bathing, he now hates bath which he used to like. Bathing him is like bathing ourselves too. Change diaper, he will not stay still. He may try to crawl away while still having poop poop still uncleaned yet. Normally we have to wrestle with him. He is only 14 months+ Scold him is like scolding at wall. The difference is he will come back to me even when I am angry and sit next to me. At times give massage / hug me too. Their manja~ness in to powderful... really heart can melt one.  QUOTE(auhckw @ Jan 4 2011, 02:28 PM) I think the monster in them is released when they start learning how to walk. That is when they will grab everything, upside down your bag, etc Correct, but after scolding and scolding he will keep search for us when we are disappearing from them even just a moment, then we will kesian and follow him and after that he make ruckus again, wallop him some more, cried and the cycle keep going. Weird though Mine when he is b4 walking mode is so much easier to take care...  QUOTE(moorish @ Jan 15 2011, 10:10 AM) once lock herself in the car with the engine off at jusco - 14 mths old That's a serious case lol, somebody must have teach her or she observe and learn by herself. anyway children always like that one another was this month lock herself in the masterbedroom - 18 mths old  |
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Jan 17 2011, 05:54 PM
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Now my son learns a new technique of manjaness... Remember the Puss in boots in Shrek2? The one that he use the very innocent eye and look at you...
 Seems like my son uses tat technique whenever we are eating.. giving us the eye to ask for food.. |
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Jan 23 2011, 10:56 PM
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QUOTE(auhckw @ Jan 3 2011, 09:24 PM) I tried doing that but my wife and my parents and my parents in law will give in very fast... so my plan rosak... Just deal it quietly when they are not around........QUOTE(abubin @ Jan 14 2011, 05:52 PM) not using the word 'no' is one of the many different methods to bring up a child. Canning is also another method to bring up a child. You apply the method that you think suits you. Like me, I uses a balance between canning and saying 'no" and rewarding and so on. My father rarely canes me, he only rewards me usually for my exams performance and spank me when i fail my exams......I do play with my kids and they play with me. But when I am angry with them, I say "no" and they will know. And when it still does not work, comes the cane. I do not have the patience of the western way in which no canning. Or don't say 'no'. That is just not my style. Use whichever method that suits you and your kids. QUOTE(moorish @ Jan 15 2011, 10:10 AM) once lock herself in the car with the engine off at jusco - 14 mths old How bomba save her out from the car?another was this month lock herself in the masterbedroom - 18 mths old QUOTE(auhckw @ Jan 17 2011, 05:54 PM) Now my son learns a new technique of manjaness... Remember the Puss in boots in Shrek2? The one that he use the very innocent eye and look at you... LOL.» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « Seems like my son uses tat technique whenever we are eating.. giving us the eye to ask for food.. This post has been edited by Quantum_thinking: Jan 23 2011, 11:43 PM |
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Jan 24 2011, 10:30 AM
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QUOTE(Quantum_thinking @ Jan 23 2011, 10:56 PM) How bomba save her out from the car? Actually they didnt break open the car la, they ask a mechanic to open the car door bypassing the alarm. |
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Jan 31 2011, 05:16 PM
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My husband gets annoyed by my 3yr old cousin. He is her favourite and she keeps asking him the same questions over and over till he cannot tahan anymore and he yells. But my cousin just sit on his lap, hug him and say, "i love u. Im sorry." Haha. Baby 1, Hubby 0.
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Feb 5 2011, 02:22 AM
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I found your posting is a bit, erm...convoluted? First sentence and the last sentence. Hmmm...
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Mar 25 2011, 10:33 AM
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QUOTE(moorish @ Jan 15 2011, 10:10 AM) once lock herself in the car with the engine off at jusco - 14 mths old hahahha same here.. 2 times... in the car & bedroom... my son accidently lock himself in the bedroom (he sulks), i try to break in & make a hole.. unclucky the lock can't use anymore.. the door still can't open.. one man(myself) can't break the door then i call (fireman) to break in..2 guys (fireman) 1 trial can't another was this month lock herself in the masterbedroom - 18 mths old  ..second time succesfull..I was relieved .... u wonder how hard is the door..regards, MANSTIR |
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