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Confession of the guilty heart, Guilt as sin
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TSsotong-king
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Dec 26 2010, 12:07 PM, updated 15y ago
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Good Day Kupitards  My life has never been as messier as this before. I am closing down my business as it is not doing well and I will be left with some debts for me to clear off, if everything went smoothly. I should be able to pay off the debts in a year time. The business closure process should complete latest by February 2011. I got to know girl B approximately a week after I couple up with girl A and currently I am having an affair with girl B. girl B knew about me having a gf last night and she is upset about it. I talked to her through it and we sorta decided to continue with our affair. I am feeling badly guilty now because I care for both girls and want to be with them. Guy like me is such a jerk
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conqu3ror
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Dec 26 2010, 12:18 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 26 2010, 12:07 PM) Good Day Kupitards  My life has never been as messier as this before. I am closing down my business as it is not doing well and I will be left with some debts for me to clear off, if everything went smoothly. I should be able to pay off the debts in a year time. The business closure process should complete latest by February 2011. I got to know girl B approximately a week after I couple up with girl A and currently I am having an affair with girl B. girl B knew about me having a gf last night and she is upset about it. I talked to her through it and we sorta decided to continue with our affair. I am feeling badly guilty now because I care for both girls and want to be with them. Guy like me is such a jerk  Salute you... can easily get girls.. hahaha
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dopamine
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Dec 26 2010, 12:22 PM
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i wish i can be like you. i mean in relationship. huhu
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TSsotong-king
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Dec 26 2010, 12:25 PM
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QUOTE(conqu3ror @ Dec 26 2010, 12:18 PM) Salute you... can easily get girls.. hahaha QUOTE(dopamine @ Dec 26 2010, 12:22 PM) i wish i can be like you. i mean in relationship. huhu LOL ... I always thought having more than 1 girl at a time is good and its not the first time this is happening. I've done this many times until I decided to change and hopes to met the right one. Since then, I am single for a while and none of the girls that came into my life, caught my attention .... until recently, I met this girl A & B. The feeling of having to lie in relationship seriously suck and it feel as hell when you have to choose but you can't decide.
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dopamine
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Dec 26 2010, 12:28 PM
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how long do you get to know girl A and girl B?
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TSsotong-king
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Dec 26 2010, 12:33 PM
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QUOTE(dopamine @ Dec 26 2010, 12:28 PM) how long do you get to know girl A and girl B? I got to know girl A about 2 mths+ then start getting to know each others for weeks only decide to couple up. After we couple up, I met girl B and attracted to her too. Isn't it easier if i met both girl A and B at different times? I have this friend who is married with a kid and now having a gf at the same time too, he is now with the gf for more than a year and I always thought that his act is such an ******* act, until now ... I don't see any different between me and him, except he is married with kid. I seriously wonder how he live up to those lies.
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conqu3ror
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Dec 26 2010, 12:40 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 26 2010, 12:33 PM) I got to know girl A about 2 mths+ then start getting to know each others for weeks only decide to couple up. After we couple up, I met girl B and attracted to her too. Isn't it easier if i met both girl A and B at different times? I have this friend who is married with a kid and now having a gf at the same time too, he is now with the gf for more than a year and I always thought that his act is such an ******* act, until now ... I don't see any different between me and him, except he is married with kid. I seriously wonder how he live up to those lies. Haha, girls always fall into guys who always lies... You doing good man, just the juggling part need to be improve. Its easy, just goto the gal who most pretty & love you most. Hahaha
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dopamine
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Dec 26 2010, 12:41 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 26 2010, 12:33 PM) I got to know girl A about 2 mths+ then start getting to know each others for weeks only decide to couple up. After we couple up, I met girl B and attracted to her too. Isn't it easier if i met both girl A and B at different times? I have this friend who is married with a kid and now having a gf at the same time too, he is now with the gf for more than a year and I always thought that his act is such an ******* act, until now ... I don't see any different between me and him, except he is married with kid. I seriously wonder how he live up to those lies. Choose either one. Try to put yourself in girl A situation and think about her feeling.
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TSsotong-king
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Dec 26 2010, 12:43 PM
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QUOTE(conqu3ror @ Dec 26 2010, 12:40 PM) Haha, girls always fall into guys who always lies... You doing good man, just the juggling part need to be improve. Its easy, just goto the gal who most pretty & love you most. Hahaha Don't think this is a good advice  QUOTE(dopamine @ Dec 26 2010, 12:41 PM) Choose either one. Try to put yourself in girl A situation and think about her feeling. I did, thats why am feeling shit.
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conqu3ror
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Dec 26 2010, 12:48 PM
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QUOTE(dopamine @ Dec 26 2010, 12:41 PM) Choose either one. Try to put yourself in girl A situation and think about her feeling. @dopamine never try to be Mr. Nice, to be too consideration. Just go for gal who ever wanna hook up with you, as a guy never be a doormat, gals will rarely appreciate you. Most of the time guy get gal coz he ignoring her. Its a mind game, and you need to know how to play & manipulate it.
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dopamine
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Dec 26 2010, 12:53 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 26 2010, 12:43 PM) Don't think this is a good advice  I did, thats why am feeling shit. Make a wise decision before it is too late. Losing one person is better than losing two person in a same time
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TSsotong-king
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Dec 26 2010, 12:54 PM
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QUOTE(dopamine @ Dec 26 2010, 12:53 PM) Make a wise decision before it is too late. Losing one person is better than losing two person in a same time  U know what? I prefer losing both than having to choose
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dopamine
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Dec 26 2010, 01:03 PM
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QUOTE(conqu3ror @ Dec 26 2010, 12:48 PM) @dopamine never try to be Mr. Nice, to be too consideration. Just go for gal who ever wanna hook up with you, as a guy never be a doormat, gals will rarely appreciate you. Most of the time guy get gal coz he ignoring her. Its a mind game, and you need to know how to play & manipulate it. +1 agree but it is still suck that a guy hooks up with another gal in the same time he is having a gf. unless he is single then it is not a big deal if he wants to hook up with many gals as he wants. QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 26 2010, 12:54 PM) U know what? I prefer losing both than having to choose  Such a waste
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TSsotong-king
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Dec 26 2010, 01:04 PM
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QUOTE(dopamine @ Dec 26 2010, 01:03 PM) +1 agree but it is still suck that a guy hooks up with another gal in the same time he is having a gf. unless he is single then it is not a big deal if he wants to hook up with many gals as he wants.Such a waste  that whole bold line doesn't make any different. one shall not cheat on feelings.
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dopamine
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Dec 26 2010, 01:11 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 26 2010, 01:04 PM) that whole bold line doesn't make any different. one shall not cheat on feelings. when you are in relationship sure you will have commitment in your relationship and don't do the things like you doing now. when you single then is in another word. just hook up as much as you like n choose the one you like
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nickisthemost
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Dec 26 2010, 01:22 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 26 2010, 12:43 PM) I did, thats why am feeling shit. If you're feeling shit, your deeper conscience is telling what you did is wrong but as always, people would ignore it because they want everything as they just wouldn't get enough of it you're feeling that you wouldn't mind losing because you haven't faced with consequences yet, lulz
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Avex
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Dec 26 2010, 01:23 PM
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what answer are you seeking?
Option A Yes you are a jerk bla bla bla
Option B rule no1 in cheating, never admit you ever have another one, lie through your teeth if you have too when ur gf ask u do you still love her, don't think, just answer yes and says she is the only one.
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bonzaimy
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Dec 26 2010, 01:28 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 26 2010, 12:07 PM) Good Day Kupitards  My life has never been as messier as this before. I am closing down my business as it is not doing well and I will be left with some debts for me to clear off, if everything went smoothly. I should be able to pay off the debts in a year time. The business closure process should complete latest by February 2011. I got to know girl B approximately a week after I couple up with girl A and currently I am having an affair with girl B. girl B knew about me having a gf last night and she is upset about it. I talked to her through it and we sorta decided to continue with our affair. I am feeling badly guilty now because I care for both girls and want to be with them. Guy like me is such a jerk  this is what u get. Karma is good. U lied to others and ur business bankrupt. God is fair. Don't u think that it got somethiing to do with this?
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TSsotong-king
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Dec 26 2010, 01:35 PM
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QUOTE(Avex @ Dec 26 2010, 01:23 PM) what answer are you seeking? Option A Yes you are a jerk bla bla bla Option B rule no1 in cheating, never admit you ever have another one, lie through your teeth if you have too when ur gf ask u do you still love her, don't think, just answer yes and says she is the only one. nicely said  QUOTE(bonzaimy @ Dec 26 2010, 01:28 PM) this is what u get. Karma is good. U lied to others and ur business bankrupt. God is fair. Don't u think that it got somethiing to do with this? emmm ... closing down biz doesn't mean bankrupt u know? am just closing down my biz coz the expenses is just not worth it. by shutting it down, i can focus on my other biz and earn more than i had by end of 2011 (that if things went as plan)
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conqu3ror
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Dec 26 2010, 02:00 PM
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QUOTE(Avex @ Dec 26 2010, 01:23 PM) what answer are you seeking? Option A Yes you are a jerk bla bla bla Option B rule no1 in cheating, never admit you ever have another one, lie through your teeth if you have too when ur gf ask u do you still love her, don't think, just answer yes and says she is the only one. +1 is idiot to be honest when your girls asking question or your opinion. QUOTE(bonzaimy @ Dec 26 2010, 01:28 PM) this is what u get. Karma is good. U lied to others and ur business bankrupt. God is fair. Don't u think that it got somethiing to do with this? Too bad, this doesn't really apply to Mr. Nice guy, which they rarely get the gals. Gals always prefer liers then honest guy.
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dinda77
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Dec 26 2010, 03:28 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 26 2010, 12:07 PM) Good Day Kupitards  My life has never been as messier as this before. I am closing down my business as it is not doing well and I will be left with some debts for me to clear off, if everything went smoothly. I should be able to pay off the debts in a year time. The business closure process should complete latest by February 2011. I got to know girl B approximately a week after I couple up with girl A and currently I am having an affair with girl B. girl B knew about me having a gf last night and she is upset about it. I talked to her through it and we sorta decided to continue with our affair. I am feeling badly guilty now because I care for both girls and want to be with them. Guy like me is such a jerk  Wonder if you think you proud of being a jerk (by telling everyone you are one) or you are just one "plain whinny" jerk.
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Cryptic
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Dec 26 2010, 04:04 PM
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QUOTE(conqu3ror @ Dec 26 2010, 02:00 PM) +1 is idiot to be honest when your girls asking question or your opinion. Too bad, this doesn't really apply to Mr. Nice guy, which they rarely get the gals. Gals always prefer liers then honest guy.wow wow wow how on earth did you even come to that conclusion? TS, you wanna borrow our moral compass ke or you're unsure what you want? or you want to know how to maintain two relationships?
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egyprince
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Dec 26 2010, 04:29 PM
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QUOTE(conqu3ror @ Dec 26 2010, 02:00 PM) +1 is idiot to be honest when your girls asking question or your opinion. Too bad, this doesn't really apply to Mr. Nice guy, which they rarely get the gals. Gals always prefer liers then honest guy. Its true.....they dont like ppl to be honest to them.....i was thinking in the past relationship...if i am not that honest ...will i still loosing them??
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conqu3ror
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Dec 26 2010, 04:37 PM
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QUOTE(egyprince @ Dec 26 2010, 04:29 PM) Its true.....they dont like ppl to be honest to them.....i was thinking in the past relationship...if i am not that honest ...will i still loosing them?? +1 after you being with many gals, you will know gals statement often are reverse. So guys.. just ignore your gals. Never be a doormat, or else they will feel you are a coward & not interesting. At the end they will left you. Gals always remember those who hurt them & forget those who comfort & console them.
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aellynne
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Dec 26 2010, 07:28 PM
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QUOTE(conqu3ror @ Dec 26 2010, 04:37 PM) +1 after you being with many gals, you will know gals statement often are reverse. So guys.. just ignore your gals. Never be a doormat, or else they will feel you are a coward & not interesting. At the end they will left you. Gals always remember those who hurt them & forget those who comfort & console them. oh ? ye ke??
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TSsotong-king
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Dec 26 2010, 09:00 PM
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QUOTE(dinda77 @ Dec 26 2010, 03:28 PM) Wonder if you think you proud of being a jerk (by telling everyone you are one) or you are just one "plain whinny" jerk. am not proud being a jerk ... i admit myself being a jerk and i choose to be one. troll me so i won't feel that guilty
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-nana-
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Dec 26 2010, 11:16 PM
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karma is a b****
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h-yee
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Dec 27 2010, 03:38 PM
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Seriously? Guys like you should just stay single.
Having an affair is your choice. NOT having an affair is also your choice.
If both of them cant give you what you want, then get one girl that can give you both.
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shah_ho_nam2
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Dec 27 2010, 03:41 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 26 2010, 01:07 PM) Good Day Kupitards  » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « My life has never been as messier as this before. I am closing down my business as it is not doing well and I will be left with some debts for me to clear off, if everything went smoothly. I should be able to pay off the debts in a year time. The business closure process should complete latest by February 2011. I got to know girl B approximately a week after I couple up with girl A and currently I am having an affair with girl B. girl B knew about me having a gf last night and she is upset about it. I talked to her through it and we sorta decided to continue with our affair. I am feeling badly guilty now because I care for both girls and want to be with them. Guy like me is such a jerk  is this fall under /k/?
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yupio
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Dec 27 2010, 04:09 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 26 2010, 09:00 PM) am not proud being a jerk ... i admit myself being a jerk and i choose to be one. troll me so i won't feel that guilty  darn u, Malaysia is already short of females (male population more than female) n you got 2.....u b**t**d hehe joke apart..... in order to not be miserable later on, u better make a choice n only choose one.......easy, go with the one you are more happy with, go with the one who make u feel good!!
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TSsotong-king
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Dec 27 2010, 04:24 PM
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QUOTE(h-yee @ Dec 27 2010, 03:38 PM) Seriously? Guys like you should just stay single. Having an affair is your choice. NOT having an affair is also your choice. If both of them cant give you what you want, then get one girl that can give you both. u r still single right? can i have u then?  QUOTE(yupio @ Dec 27 2010, 04:09 PM) darn u, Malaysia is already short of females (male population more than female) n you got 2.....u b**t**d hehe joke apart..... in order to not be miserable later on, u better make a choice n only choose one.......easy, go with the one you are more happy with, go with the one who make u feel good!! both of them are pretty attractive
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yupio
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Dec 27 2010, 04:47 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 27 2010, 04:24 PM) u r still single right? can i have u then?  This guy is the real "sotong-king", no doubt about that!! QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 27 2010, 04:24 PM) both of them are pretty attractive  damm...I wanna b your friend can ar?? How old r u by the way? Giv a range will do... Lend me one and we'll all hit the cinemas, watch Tron or premonition2 or whatever....I'll provide the popcorn n drinks! Seriously....u gotta choose one n go steady with her if u serious into relationship thing.....else u gonna lose both...unless u got the "finesse"...the "skills" if u know what I mean
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TSsotong-king
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Dec 27 2010, 05:02 PM
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QUOTE(yupio @ Dec 27 2010, 04:47 PM) This guy is the real "sotong-king", no doubt about that!! damm...I wanna b your friend can ar?? How old r u by the way? Giv a range will do... Lend me one and we'll all hit the cinemas, watch Tron or premonition2 or whatever....I'll provide the popcorn n drinks! Seriously....u gotta choose one n go steady with her if u serious into relationship thing.....else u gonna lose both...unless u got the "finesse"...the "skills" if u know what I mean  am in my late 20s and the girls are in their early 20s. as i said, i dont want to choose and i rather losing both. so, now girl B is forcing a decision at me by walking away
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yupio
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Dec 27 2010, 05:15 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 27 2010, 05:02 PM) am in my late 20s and the girls are in their early 20s. as i said, i dont want to choose and i rather losing both. so, now girl B is forcing a decision at me by walking away  ohh...I m too young for u guys then hehehehe so the 'losing' part is taking its course already lol....so u rather lose all and not having any goodness than choosing and keep one to yourself? U're difficult to understand bro...but at least u r doing some good to all the males in MY....we're supposed to thank u for your charitable kindness
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TSsotong-king
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Dec 27 2010, 05:17 PM
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QUOTE(yupio @ Dec 27 2010, 05:15 PM) ohh...I m too young for u guys then hehehehe so the 'losing' part is taking its course already lol....so u rather lose all and not having any goodness than choosing and keep one to yourself? U're difficult to understand bro...but at least u r doing some good to all the males in MY....we're supposed to thank u for your charitable kindness  I can't choose and I don't deserve any of the girls. I am better off being single. So, yes ... just let the world and karma screw me up. Anyway, what good i did to the males in MY?
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yupio
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Dec 27 2010, 05:42 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 27 2010, 05:17 PM) I can't choose and I don't deserve any of the girls. I am better off being single. So, yes ... just let the world and karma screw me up. Anyway, what good i did to the males in MY? karma eh....hehe so u got tired from all the girls tht flock to u in the past...so much so that u r no longer interested in the opposite gender?? trying the opposite direction now? hehe why good to males in MY? hehe by giving up both the gals, u turned 2 girls to available to all males in MY....2 more chances
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Dec 27 2010, 05:48 PM
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QUOTE(yupio @ Dec 27 2010, 05:42 PM) karma eh....hehe so u got tired from all the girls tht flock to u in the past...so much so that u r no longer interested in the opposite gender?? trying the opposite direction now? hehe why good to males in MY? hehe by giving up both the gals, u turned 2 girls to available to all males in MY....2 more chances Yupio, take both of his girls if TS don't want them but I think TS had explored both siham already
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yupio
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Dec 27 2010, 05:51 PM
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QUOTE(SwooshY @ Dec 27 2010, 05:48 PM) Yupio, take both of his girls if TS don't want them but I think TS had explored both siham already  hehe noler, can't do that...coz I'm too 'young' for them Gonna leave the chance for others
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TSsotong-king
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Dec 27 2010, 06:11 PM
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QUOTE(yupio @ Dec 27 2010, 05:42 PM) karma eh....hehe so u got tired from all the girls tht flock to u in the past...so much so that u r no longer interested in the opposite gender?? trying the opposite direction now? hehe why good to males in MY? hehe by giving up both the gals, u turned 2 girls to available to all males in MY....2 more chances its undeniable i got many girls flocking into me, not only in the past but also current. i even attract own gender. anyhow, what is there to be proud of? breaking ppl hearts aint nice thing to do.
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dinda77
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Dec 27 2010, 07:25 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 27 2010, 06:11 PM) its undeniable i got many girls flocking into me, not only in the past but also current. i even attract own gender. anyhow, what is there to be proud of? breaking ppl hearts aint nice thing to do. My-my, your "many girls flocking into me ..." line really amazed me. I guess I was right thinking that you are one proud jerk (who try to act and sound noble). Well have a good life buddy..you know..as a fake bond??
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TSsotong-king
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Dec 27 2010, 07:32 PM
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QUOTE(dinda77 @ Dec 27 2010, 07:25 PM) My-my, your "many girls flocking into me ..." line really amazed me. I guess I was right thinking that you are one proud jerk (who try to act and sound noble). Well have a good life buddy..you know..as a fake bond?? that is the best line you can come up with? i deserve more than that
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conqu3ror
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Dec 27 2010, 07:45 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 27 2010, 07:32 PM) that is the best line you can come up with? i deserve more than that  +1 Salute you. You should teach LYN member here how to attract gals... Hahaha
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dinda77
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Dec 27 2010, 07:51 PM
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QUOTE(sotong-king @ Dec 27 2010, 07:32 PM) i deserve more than that  why, i thought I've given you more lines that what i think you deserve. Silly me to forget that a jerk (proud or not) always want more
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Haruyuki
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Dec 27 2010, 08:08 PM
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lol'ed at this thread. gud job for sumone who wanted attentions.
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TSsotong-king
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Dec 27 2010, 10:50 PM
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QUOTE(Haruyuki @ Dec 27 2010, 08:08 PM) lol'ed at this thread. gud job for sumone who wanted attentions. oh yes, am such an attention whore
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