My brother just finished Chemical Engineering at Taylors Uni. with CGPA of 3.05. But he says he lost interest in Engineering and also that he has no confidence. He not sure what he wants to do.

My father is retired,he is comfortable with his savings and does not expect any support from me or my other working brother. But he definitely cannot support my fresh graduate brother any more. My father paid for all our education.  Don't know how to motivate my brother to get a job in Chemical Engineering. Any suggestions?

Tks for your suggestions. Actually my Dec. dead line is just a shock treatment for him. Not that I want to throw him out,although I am stretched. He has been staying at my place during his uni days. Because my dad is giving him pocket money, he wants to take a part time job to earn a little extra and waste time lazing around. All night on internet and get up late next day. He has done this 'wayang of not sure what to do', with my parents. Says he does not want O & G and does not like engineering. Now the whole family is upset, a person with so much potential is wasting away his life.

Any way like you said, I have sourced around and made him apply also. I've asked him for his CV which I will try with my circle of friends. My dad and I do think he needs to put his foot in to realize what is in store.

Even my dad agrees, he needs the shock treatment!