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 ex-girlfriend pregnant with my child PLS HELP !

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TSjeffrey pang
post Dec 8 2010, 11:00 PM, updated 15y ago

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I'm in a dilemma right now. I got to know a girl while i was working in Johor many months back. I'm now back working in KL. She called me up earlier today to inform me that she is 3 months pregnant. I've only had sex with her 3 times......ever. We were together for only 6 weeks, so our love is not really that deep. I've yet to reply to her calls & sms's, as i'm deeply troubled.

Neither 1 of us knows which direction to take. Its impossible for me to marry her, b'cos there is absolutely no love between us. Moreover, she is unattractive(flat-chested, has bad breath, protruding upper jaw), not feminine & unsophisticated. I regret bedding her. I'm 30 & she's 31.

I realize that i've made a huge mistake & many folks in here will slight me, but pls offer me some solutions icon_question.gif
TSjeffrey pang
post Dec 8 2010, 11:14 PM

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QUOTE(aegis`- @ Dec 8 2010, 11:03 PM)
you said it yourself. shes unattractive.
BUT WHY BROTHER WHY?
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Because that time We were drunk,we know each other in the pub,after a night staying,so i take opportunity to try & make it work out between us. but in d end i really cant accept her.
TSjeffrey pang
post Dec 15 2010, 10:12 PM

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QUOTE(zenwell @ Dec 13 2010, 04:23 PM)
does your parents know bout this? what's their opinion on this? how about her parents?

why not you try to confirm whether the baby is yours? You are a jerk for not returning her calls. the girl may be suffering from mental stress right now due to the sudden pregnancy and no reply from you.

Also, what makes you think you can have an "E" cup, fresh breathe, pretty jaw, feminine etc girls? Who are you? do you look as good as your avatar pic shows? you are highly educated? you are sophistcated? you are fit with 6 - pack? you have the best breathe in the world? your face is to-die-for? you are holding a high position in a company? you earn a lot? in conclusion, are you the last fantastic man on earth? if not then why you condemn other ppl? I realy hate guys that judge girls by their outlook. Must be thin (but with E or F cup breast), pretty, talk softly, walk like model, etc, etc.  mad.gif
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FYI, i'm as good looking as my avatar cool2.gif . thanks for asking. normally i've very good taste in women, but somehow my standard dropped drastically on this one. I definitely can't marry this one! I can't live with her. Impossible!

I'm normally not very choosy but i have a fetish: I LOVE BIG BOOBS thumbup.gif This criteria is not an option!

I guess i've already come to a final decision : GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION

May i request for advice on how to go about this process? Will the adopting parents identities remain anonymous? How does it work? Does the govt have such programs? I would like to give up the child for adoption to couples who have a solid financial background but r unable to have kids of their own due to obvious reasons.

Thanks so far to all who have replied. I appreciate all yer responses.
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