Bro, have u talk to her? U need to see her, discuss on how to overcome your mess , find a solution on how to raise the child. Who should raise the child, be it the mommy, daddy or together( gettin' marry) its up to u and the girl to decide. But I suggest that u concerns about the future of the child. I do believe that u r very wiseful and a good man, so be a responsible daddy.

And remember everyone, when go out with some girl, prepare some backup(condom).