i made it very clear to my bbgal, as i was direct bf my bbgal, i use 2 position.

day time, i cuddle her n bf n sit in sofa in living room. night time, i did side lying position, so, sometimes, she was still drinking, i alrdy fell into sleep. She would release automatically when she had enough n slept, so, we slept together, n when i woke up (normally an hr later the feeding), i would move myself out from her bed (she has her single size bed).

There were few times she tried to play w/ me at night, i would just show her my dull-face n no talking to her, just looked at her w/out giving any reaction. Of course, i oso on yellow dim light or sometimes just light-off. When she got bored, she would go to sleep.

There was 1 night, during her 3rd wk, she cried non-stop, even after feeding, changing n rocking, i lost my patience n scolded her (yes, i was impatience person i shd admit), she fast2 shut up n closed eye n slept. My mom (helping me during confinement mth) was so shocked abt this. so, i concluded that baby understands us, just we don't understand them! Hahahahahhah......

i used "cry-it-out" method during her 2 mth age, as i couldn't tahan to carry her fro, 9am till 9pm. (my mom lor, carried her all time when she was crying n she got so used to it). My heart was bleeding when she cried but i knew i had to do so, for both parties good. So, she cried, i cried lor. Luckily, after 3 4 days, she alrdy settled down.

Now, 4 mth+ age, she got her routine. But she knows how to choose ppl to bully. She won't cry for my cuddle bcoz she knows i won't compromise, but she will bully her grandma. Her trick is she smiles (very sweetly) when she sees her grandma, then after a min, she shows face. Then her grandma cannot tahan, pick her up lor. So, it proves my conclusion again, baby is very cunning!