Hi Lindy,

There's also an etiquette when you comment on other people's work. White Chocolate was just sharing her custom work with everyone.She put in a lot of effort in it

There's constructive criticism and then there's statements that would make people be disheartened or hurt. We do want all the members to express their thoughts and opinions here, but there's no need to be hurtful. Just put yourself in her shoes if you share your custom work and people started saying the same thing you did, saying you ruin the doll.

Be objective. You're entitled to not liking it, but there's no need to express someone's hard work by saying they ruined the doll just because it is not to YOUR liking. You claim you have customized BJDs then you should know how it feels like to be harshly judged.

We want to keep this place fun & positive for everyone.

That's my 2 cents.