QUOTE(chiharu @ Dec 1 2010, 07:38 AM)
Hi Lindy,
There's also an etiquette when you comment on other people's work. White Chocolate was just sharing her custom work with everyone.She put in a lot of effort in it
There's constructive criticism and then there's statements that would make people be disheartened or hurt. We do want all the members to express their thoughts and opinions here, but there's no need to be hurtful. Just put yourself in her shoes if you share your custom work and people started saying the same thing you did, saying you ruin the doll.
Be objective. You're entitled to not liking it, but there's no need to express someone's hard work by saying they ruined the doll just because it is not to YOUR liking. You claim you have customized BJDs then you should know how it feels like to be harshly judged.
We want to keep this place fun & positive for everyone.
That's my 2 cents.
Chiharu,There's also an etiquette when you comment on other people's work. White Chocolate was just sharing her custom work with everyone.She put in a lot of effort in it
There's constructive criticism and then there's statements that would make people be disheartened or hurt. We do want all the members to express their thoughts and opinions here, but there's no need to be hurtful. Just put yourself in her shoes if you share your custom work and people started saying the same thing you did, saying you ruin the doll.
Be objective. You're entitled to not liking it, but there's no need to express someone's hard work by saying they ruined the doll just because it is not to YOUR liking. You claim you have customized BJDs then you should know how it feels like to be harshly judged.
We want to keep this place fun & positive for everyone.
That's my 2 cents.
Thank you for your reply. Sometimes I was too direct or the language i use abit bombastic. I have told my opinion, but the owner seems want to show off she sold her customize doll with 200 usd above and say some one dunno what is custom doll. You can say my opinion is constructive cristism but her one not constructive at all. My first customize doll, my father said can throw to Tong sampah, I am abit sad because ppl do not like my doll but I know the reason cause every doll is unique and try to make it better.
I try to get joy and fun from this forum too, but seems like previous post is correct lor from Merrinette
from this forum is true, some one is act pro. I'm truly apologize from her. She was right.
It's not objective. It's quite subjective my dear. I have told every one it's my expression, "Spoiled"... like omg, alamak, it's true she "spoiled" aya original look.
I guess you also come in to voice it out because you have something to say right? This is the place called forum
Dec 1 2010, 08:20 AM

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