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 Proposing for new rule in Girl Forum, Optional Tag: "Only Femaly Reply"

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Kampung2005
post Nov 1 2010, 11:49 AM

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Allow me to share my opinion on this issue.

I am sympathetic towards the plight of female forumers here. Their concerns are legitimate. However, i also question the proposal, especially the effectiveness of this proposal of having "tag" of female replies only thread.

It may only solve part of the problem. Gender tag can be changed. Some people do not have gender tag too. The proposal will only heighten the scrutiny of gender tag which i think is superficial. The very basis of TS and the proponents to have this proposal is to prevent..

Example of view from this thread:

QUOTE(sarahFaizal @ Oct 30 2010, 01:22 PM)
Hey girls,

Do you support if the admin has another rule for Girl Forum, an tag to be choose if the topic reply only can be from female? Do you agreed cause most of the time we girls want to discuss thing, it got disrupted with ego base or horny base reply. Doesn't /K/ is enough for that?
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The TS basis is to prevent unnecessary reply on the GC board. Hence, i believe that people should look at the problem and solving it, not a short-term solution which may cause implications such as judging people........."purely" on gender tag. What they decide on gender tag, is personal issue, but we need to look at more important thing such as the quality of the post.

Solutions?

1. Get one more moderator who is active in GC.

- Moderators, i believe they are humans too. They have real world life that they need to tend to.

2. Change the guidelines (Rules and Regulations) for posting such as people who post sexist comments might be held liable.

Introducing tags will not work, what is needed is the participation of forummers, such as girls to report any comments such as sexist ones....and they need to be educated on what is not acceptable or sexist, or something which do not contribute in answering the problem of any TS who start threads here.

Judging people based on gender tag is unfair, i suggest look at the weight and quality of posting instead.

Conclusion : Tag introduction will not work. Participation from "stakeholders" (especially girls who participate in this board) is important and also look at the quality of the comments instead of gender tag alone.


Kampung2005
post Nov 1 2010, 11:58 AM

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QUOTE(KVReninem @ Nov 1 2010, 11:55 AM)
Good Kampung, atleast someone come up with sensible talk rather talk only, no details.
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There are some existing rules which are rarely enforced from what i see and this is just my opinion.
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1) No guys are allowed to open a thread in GC. A warning or suspension (at least 3 days) may be issued, subjected to moderator discretion. You may, however, reply to an existing thread.

3) Any person who posts sexist or degrading posts will be suspended for 7 days without warning.


The basis is there. Enforcement of rules, more important.

The rules can be tweaked to serve the needs of GC better. What kind of tweaking? Only girls who do participate on this board knows. It should upheld this board is for girls to console, to ask the opinion of things that are of female nature. However, constructive replies from anyone, should be welcomed.

Kampung2005
post Nov 1 2010, 02:04 PM

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QUOTE(sarahFaizal @ Nov 1 2010, 12:59 PM)
The problem is, when a girl is asking for female respond only, and still there are respond from male (obviously). And girls asking nicely for not to join the discussion, the result is:
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I saw it and i do agree that it happens.

That is why i suggest, tweaking some rules and regulations.

At the same time, the power is more on girls to report any breaches.

When there is action being taken, naturally, it may help to reduce future breaches.
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post Nov 1 2010, 02:14 PM

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QUOTE(KVReninem @ Nov 1 2010, 01:58 PM)
do ask the female thread mods, where r they? got butthurtz ? whistling.gif
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Moderators, are like us. They need to tend real life activities as well.


QUOTE(sarahFaizal @ Nov 1 2010, 02:06 PM)
That is right. We are not living in heaven. We have to adapt with what we got. Can you see a what a troll is doing in this topic? sad ya? how a girl can engage a meaningful discussion if troll keep spamming.


Added on November 1, 2010, 2:07 pm

could you add to the report?
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I noted the situation.

That is why a combination of...

Active moderator + active observation and participation (also scrutiny) from girls = big difference

Not foolproof (due to the context), but it will help to reduce replies that can be deemed not constructive.



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post Nov 2 2010, 12:01 PM

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QUOTE(sarahFaizal @ Nov 2 2010, 08:54 AM)
+1 But 15 is too many. many 5


Added on November 2, 2010, 8:55 am

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Yup. name it as Report Fag. LOL.


Added on November 2, 2010, 8:56 am
So, sila keluar please. Hahahhaha.

A faq trying to convert GC into K
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QUOTE(strawbabe90 @ Nov 2 2010, 11:41 AM)
got less than 15 active gals here. 3 to 5 should be a good number.
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I think start with the basics first. Active mod, rules tweaking and the keenness of girl forumers to spot any breaches.

Problem with rating system is that people may abuse it. It may create false judgment too.

 

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