To Do List for husband who is gonna be daddy soon :

1) Accompany wife to go for check up.
2) Remind wife to take medicine in time before delivery, because during delivery, the wife will lose tons of blood.
3) Be with her in the labour room to keep her support, it's very pain and only god knows how pain she is.
4) During confinement, maybe you can help wife to massage when she is pain at her back <--- for sure during breastfeeding.
5) Help to take care of your newborn baby whenever you are free, you wife will need a good rest after delivery and during confinement.
6) Standby anytime to help buy things which is needed for your wife and baby, because no one is free besides the husband.
7) Give more attentions & concerns your wife.

and many more 

 

Questions:
1. how often u need to pump a day? currently the missus pumps twice a day, 10 mins per session, get an average total of 3oz per session.

2. sometimes the missus BF the baby as often as every hour and sometimes one session could last up to 1-hour. is this normal?

appreciate your advise. thanks