phythia, wish i can say that to him... hb's going to put in him in his baby cot once we move back... huhuhu... but i planned to sleep wif him when hb's out to work... kakakaka....

qarezma, then sanju sleeps where? i tot co sleeping? i dunno... but i'll definitely miss bf... so stop asking me to wean la... if only they can hear it... huhuhu...

phythia, ya lo... will miss the bonding time, holding him close, his weird n funny stares, the smell of his hair... huhuhu... almost like falling in luv huh...

phythia, qarezma, we oso got time... sometimes we all bath together... then can teach him this is how to use the toilet, how to bath without his baby tub... sometimes our sayang sayang is abt the same time as phythia's...

i was wondering if it'll b weird for mummy to bath wif her son... guess not the current bathroom in my mum's place can fit us... we just need to take turns to bath e.g. him holding bb while i bath after we both finish bathing him, then i dry up n take bb away from bathroom to dry him up...

currently my boy dun mind closed door but i need to put extra pillows n bolsters to protect him from falling/rolling over/biting wires/"tasting" floor... when he's around i'll ask him to watch him while i do other stuffs... when we (just me n bb) bath together i'll put him sitting in his baby tub beside me wif some water so he can splash/hit the water

i used to bath when he sleeps but i feel it's time consuming... btw the time he's asleep it'll b near midday or already 9pm... so i change to let's bath together...

is it ok for my boy to nurse for 10 mins? i heard when baby gets older, he'll feed better... i dunno if 10 mins is enuf to get the hind milk...

phythia, y me?

shikuzika, u only have 2 choices:

1. stand by ur grounds n b firm
2. try to maintain harmony relationship i.e. half give way half stand ground

if u're in my situation, i'll try to tok to hb n c how he would respond... if he stands by his mum or getting tired of getting sandwiched, u're on our own... if ur hb is on ur side, get ur hb to tok to ur mum... regardsless if ur mil is displeased, u have ur hb support in the family... u need support or u fight it alone... or u can try taking ur bb somewhere out of sight e.g. ur room when he showed that reaction before she notice it... honestly, relationship between mil n dil is really complicated... we as dil wanna try to please or at least not to make trouble... but it's difficult coz after all we r younger generation... we should listen to elder... so it's ur choice: stand or fight lemme know wat u do next... i oso wanna learn from u... i'm serious...

here's some encouragement to shy nursing mummies, i've made my first public nursing in seoul garden i just wrapped my upper body wif shawl then popped the breast for baby i'm doing great rite? oh ya hb was wif me he was the one who's getting all the food while i waited for him to cook all the food... yummy...

phythia, no la... baby was crying n toking aloud signaling he's sleepy... i admit i've made a bad habit to him - nurse to sleep... so he couldn't stand it so he asked if i wanted to nurse... n i hold it until the restaurant is not too crowded - after lunch hr... yippee yay yay~!

phythia, aiya... u know my situation ma... i try not to nurse him immediately when he wakes up from his sleep n c if he would sleep back on his own... sometimes he could sometimes he needs my help... but all this dun seems like a good idea to others

qarezma, bf or fm? every 2 hrs sounds like bf mayb she just wants him to b fat n chunky

EnPoiNte, i think if she can sleep thru n no fuss or cry then it should b ok... mayb she just past her growth spurt...

qarezma, ur situation is diff than mine... mine is should b food food food n not bottle anymore total opposite...

sbux, oh ya... have u read in the bf advocate? u can use ebm to bath bb... it can act as moisturizer... u still have extra ebm rite?

genie, ya ebm is expressed breast milk

i think this is so cute... baby was sitting on my lap... we were facing face to face playing... suddenly he sucked my chest... then i tot mayb i could feed him... so i pulled up my shirt n he just latched on... but he told he could sleep too n it made me so ticklish... he fall asleep sideway against my chest while latching on n sitting... wat is ur funniest bf position?

phythia, i've tried that before but it feels heavy la...

phythia, i dun want my boy to do somersault on me~! his head lies lower than his body rite? won't it b difficult to drink ar?