Hospital Name Here: SJMC

Cesarean + Baby Included: RM12k+
O&G Specialist: Dr Tang
Comments:

I goes through this forum and also recommended by my close friend that Dr Tang is very good and support natural birth + breastfeeding.
So i so excited and can't wait to deliver my baby with her.
everything went fine till when me and hubby went for check up due i got mild pain on stomach for few days and hubby was anxious due this our 1st baby.

They direct us directly go to labour room and check on my contraction. and want me to admit hospital.
we are so happy at first but after waited for 18 hours, only the contraction get stronger but i still feel nothing..
Doc put induce pill for me on next day 930am, we waited for 8 hours and my cervix still not open!!

We started to panic and ask for advice and i also ask for discharge, Dr Tang gv us 3 option:
1,wait again
2,cant discharge the room but can go out for walk and back every 6 hrs
3,direct c section

Due to panic,nervous & anxious, we choosen the no 3 as Doc Tang did mention if natural birth i must take epidural anyway, and remind me that my pelvis is small n bb is around 3.2kg. We are scare is i failed in natural birth and need c-section after that so we choose direct c-section.

after all, i feel so depressed as the mid wife from SJMC told me that actually i still can wait, shouldn't be admit hospital so fast.

I am totally sad once i heard this. Due at first our intention is only for check up on 1st day

I know i should listen to dr consult. But i really don't see any good feedback of Dr Tang regarding support of natural birth.
She is good as my wound isn't that pain after 4 days and the scar still fine.
But she isn't that good for me as when me & my hubby in that situation, she as a natural birth support Dr should clearly explain more on each selections.


I feel really sad that i couldn't push hard together with my BB which i wishes since i conceived my BB.

Anyway, might she isn't suitable gynae for me as i am very emotional person who need a more details,caring doc

SJMC service is really good, RM12k is out of our budget but we are happy that we could room in with bb and successs in breastfeeding since the day he born.

TQ

This post has been edited by skyjuicegal: Jun 22 2016, 02:48 PM