Sup.

So anyway, I have a dilemma at hand. I'm currently being caught up in some kind of CRAZY FANGIRL rage, which I'm sure a fair amount of males would like to experience... but believe me buddy it bites you in the ass at the end.

I'm now dating a girl called Stef. She is beautiful, talented and smart. However, because I have a legion of crazy fangirls (who I have done sexual things with in the past) - it makes Stef very insecure and uneasy when people joke around that I am a sl*t. We haven't been dating for long, it's been two weeks so I suppose a deep sense of trust has yet to be built up.

Anyway, my craziest fangirl (Joanna) insists I have feelings for her that I do not admit to. Because humans are naturally all attention wh*res and jealous people, I indirectly broke Joanna up while she was with her most recent boyfriend (this being before I got together with Stef) I told Joanna I had feelings for her while she was with Tom as I was jealous that her attention had shifted away from me.

I will admit that it felt good when Joanna's attention shifted back to me, however I did not enjoy it nearly as much when I started to get to know Stef.

In short, Joanna is a crazy hobag who is constantly sending me dirty sexts and dirty pictures of herself scantily clad to my mobile. When I reject her "professed" love for me, she gets very angry.

Stef suffers as a result of my stupidity, I find myself having to console her quite often and to reassure her that there is nothing going on between me and other girls. I know the person I was in the past was an a**hole, but since being with Stef I have taken time to re-evaluate my stance on relationships and the like.

So, what I want is.... how can I help Stef feel more secure in this relationship? I don't think I've quite liked a girl so much before....
HOW CAN I GET RID OF JOANNA? I can deal with the rest of the crazy girls, they aren't as psycho.

Stef's pic is somewhere here...already.

I will see if I can find a normal pic of Joanna, although I don't see how that is relevant at the moment.

I'm looking for advice.

Joanna:


This post has been edited by ollyATyourplace: Oct 10 2010, 11:30 AM

Ok so, I've read ur advice guys.. ty for replying btw I didn't know how many people were going to reply...

Do you think changing my number is not a tad drastic? I don't even know if I can change my number since I'm on a postpaid plan.


I've told her the person I was in the past, and how she's changed me. I know we've only been together for two weeks...but it's insane.

Oh no, I told Joanna I liked her BEFORE I hooked up with Stef. I KNOW BUDDY, this is just coming to bite me in the a$$ hardcore.
Sh*t, I've never been very good at apologizing for my actions.

I think I'm just fked, I feel like even if I resolve things with Joanna there will be more girls that I used to mess around with in my past that will make Stef feel insecure about us.

This post has been edited by ollyATyourplace: Oct 10 2010, 08:15 AM

Yes i know, karma is a nasty little b*tch. It's quite hard to sever all forms of communication w/ her as we have a lot of the same mutual friends, thus getting invited to alot of the same parties and events.

You might not meet her standards, I'm afraid.

If ONLY it was that simple bro.

Sounds like you're speaking from experience bro, or have you just been watching too many korean dramas? F*CK I ADMIT IT, I AM A P*SSY. I know that, alright I'll chew on your idea. Thanks

Really? Alright then, I'll be calling up my telco the first thing in the morning