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TSBlurSotong
post Oct 5 2010, 12:51 AM, updated 16y ago

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I like children a lot. I don't have one yet, but I've had distant relatives going through such situations not knowing what to do and it was heartbreaking. He has autism, he's now ten, but thinks and behaves like 5. He was only recently diagnosed. In 2004, only 50% of autistic children under 13 were diagnosed before they reach primary schools. But let's not just talk about children with autism. I think every parent, especially those new to parenthood, needs help identifying and getting their children what's right.

Let's start with children below 5. Here's what I found;

Early identification of special needs is a key to a child's successful development. If special needs are not identified early, children may go through years of failure. This failure can create a poor self-concept, which may compound the disability.

Special needs are often identified when young children participate in day care programs. Caregivers may be the first to detect a speech, visual, or hearing problem or to note a cognitive, emotional, or physical handicap.

To identify special needs, you need to understand normal development. When a problem is suspected, observe the child closely. Informal observation may be used to assess a child's needs. Be sure to note these observations on cards or paper. When recording observations, mention signs of behaviors that suggest a special need. Any unusual social, cognitive, emotional, or physical development could signal a possible special need.

Your child learns through being with other people and exploring the world around them. However, some children have more difficulties than most children of their age with:

•communication
•understanding and learning
•sensory and physical development
•behaviour or relating to other people

Children with this type of learning difficulty or disability are said to have 'special educational needs'.

Stuttering in young children is often characterized by repetition, hesitation, and prolongation. Few young children stutter all the time. They usually only stutter under certain conditions.

In the early stages of language development, many children experience stuttering. This often happens when they feel pressured. Children function best in a warm, noncritical learning place. This type of environment helps all children speak with confidence.

If you have a stuttering child in your care, focus on creating good speaking conditions:

Plan activities so all children will experience success.
Provide the child with enough time to say what he or she has to say.
Listen closely to what the child is saying, as opposed to focusing on the stuttering.
Avoid rushing a child through a task.

Unfortunately, many well-meaning people try to provide directions to a stuttering child. "Stop and think," "Start over," and "Speak slower" are common examples. These suggestions often make the child feel even more fearful. A child's difficulty could continue as a result of this fear. An environment free of pressure is important.


Here's a link that could help by answering a few questions bout your child's behaviour, motor skills, senses, speech, etc to help you see if your child's developing normally.
http://www.ciccdiscoverytool.org/ConditionsOfUse.aspx

and here's a link bout stats, detection, provision etc. in Malaysia. It's a journal.
http://www.crc.gov.my/documents/J08-50_Mee...yinMalaysia.pdf

There's a lot to explore in this topic like:
Clinical Diagnostic
Types of Childhood Disabilities and Other Special Needs
Coping with the Challenges of Having a Child with Special Needs


I hope everyone can share more for the betterment of our children.
abubin
post Oct 5 2010, 04:30 PM

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Good for you to post this.

Very important for young parents to realize their child have special needs.

I have a son diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome along with ADHD. Asperger's (aspie) is one of the spectrum of Autism.

It is important to know that there are no cure for autism. Those people who says this or that traditional medicine can cure it are only bullsh1tting. The only way to help kids with autism is to train them to improve whatever deficiency they are having. For eg, speech improvement or better hand/eye coordination.
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post Oct 9 2010, 07:50 PM

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both 3 of my cousins have autistic. my parents were worry when my youngest brother(4th child) will have autistic also, we were lucky enough to have a normal brother smile.gif but im still a little concern about my offsprings in the future. their actually super smart and talented. i have fun playing and understanding them.
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post Oct 11 2010, 03:52 PM

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Hi all,

try this
http://www.worldautismawarenessday.org/sit...nizations.htm#M
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post Oct 25 2010, 12:27 AM

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My cousin had a son who was only diagnosed with autism at 8 years old even though the signs are visible since he was 2. He started off like a normal child, he even called "mama" and "papa" but at one point of time, he just stopped calling them. This was their 2nd child but 1st son and they were in denial. They already had a daughter and already understood all the developments milestone for a normal child but they kept reasoning that because he is a boy, his development is slower.
They live in a different state from me, so I could only point them to the nearest NASOM centre when they finally come to terms with it.
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post Oct 25 2010, 11:22 AM

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My bro is currently working as a therapist for autistic kids...yup, he likes them very much and he said that they are actually very clever and have a very good memory...it's just that they are 'living their dream in their own world'...
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my son is like abubin's son, we noticed his special needs since 3y-o and he is 7 now. all these years he has been attending special class, training and many more. after deferring his standard 1 early this year we are now preparing him for the coming January. not sure if he is ready for that or the teacher in normal school can take that. plan b will be special school if it is not going well.

Abudin, how old is your son now?
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post Nov 29 2010, 07:12 PM

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my son is 6 now. Coming 2011 school term, he will be going into standard one. Which I am very concerned about.

Child with special needs like my son need a lot of training. Like even proper method of breathing. Eg, through nose and not mouth. Need to train how to wash hands, going to toilet and so on. Now trying to train him on adapting to the new school.

Also, it is VERY VERY important to have a teacher that understand such needs. If the teacher your child get in school knows about such conditions and know how to take care of such child then you are lucky. Stay with this teacher. If you are unlucky and get lousy young teacher who is not bothered to enhanced his/her knowledge on child with special needs then ditch that teacher.

Ryansia, are you sending your son to any special classes? Like NASOM (National Autisme Society of Malaysia) or other institutions?

I am sending mine to a weekly class where they have a group session that teaches them things like communicating with others, interaction with friends and so on. Kids with asperger's syndrome have social skill dysfunction. Problem is, the fee per session is very expensive and the other kids attending sometimes are unable to attend causing classes to be very rare.
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post Jan 3 2011, 02:54 PM

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My son was dignosed with Autism since 2.5 years old and we did many therapist for him, and he had improved a lot since then.. He is actually 50-50 in attending normal school, hence we would like to give it a try for normal school..

but just incase he cannot cope with the classes in normal school, do you guys know of any 'normal school special class' primary school in KL that is cater for special needs children ?

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QUOTE(engmdm @ Jan 3 2011, 02:54 PM)
My son was dignosed with Autism since 2.5 years old and we did many therapist for him, and he had improved a lot since then.. He is actually 50-50 in attending normal school, hence we would like to give it a try for normal school..

but just incase he cannot cope with the classes in normal school, do you guys know of any 'normal school special class' primary school in KL that is cater for special needs children ?
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u can enrol him in sekolah intergrasi pendidikan khas just like my son.......must have a recommendation letter from doctor and encouraged to register with JKM as OKU... ......my son's school got about 90 students mostly autistic.....they have a special class where they will be taught how to care of themselves....beside teachers they got special assistant to take care of the students......they will help to teach buy foods from canteen, attend them if they want to got to toilet etc......once the teachers confident they can mix with normal students then only the'll be transferred to normal class.....my son is in 2nd year already.....got no std 1 to 6......the eldest in my son class is 11 years old.


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My son is 12 now. He's has Down Syndrome. He's been going to a special class in a normal SK in Cheras since Standard 1. Not many schools in this area with special classes but the one that had was luckily fairly close to our house. Before that he went to Kiwanis in PJ a couple a times a week.

He's been through a lot. He had 2 holes in his heart (AVSD) and had an op when he was 5 mths old to fix them. I still remember the number of tubes sticking into him after the op. You could hardly see the baby behind all that. 3 more ops after that due to complications. Countless cases of pneumonia when he was young. Stepping on my my iPhone 2G when he was 7. But he's much better now especially since he became a big brother 5 yrs ago to his little sister. Those 2 are inseparable. Just this morning, he walked his sister, holding her hand, from the car to her kindergarden entrance just like any big brother.

I'm so proud of him.
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post Mar 31 2011, 11:47 AM

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This story warms my heart...
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post Jun 1 2011, 10:05 PM

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Soonwai, you warmed me too... gan bah tei!
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post Jan 20 2013, 03:27 PM

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Hello! I came across this thread, and wanted to share... if any parents are looking to get assistance with their special child's communication (speech therapy, down's syndrome, autism, etc), I can recommend a service that goes to your home. Very effective! Let me know if you are interested, I can find out more.
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Just found their website: http://www.lemm-int-therapy.com/
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post Feb 4 2013, 06:34 PM

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Hello again, all!
If anyone is interested, there is a forum started for LEMM International Therapy: http://lemm.createaforum.com



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post Jun 16 2017, 11:30 AM

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I have son 4 years old, boy. He has problem with communication and learning skills. I leave around Puchong. Looking special school gov for my kids. Can give suggestion?
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QUOTE(UbuntuClient @ Jun 16 2017, 11:30 AM)
I have son 4 years old, boy. He has problem with communication and learning skills. I leave around Puchong. Looking special school gov for my kids. Can give suggestion?
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got doc confirmation?
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post Jul 3 2017, 11:21 AM

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QUOTE(creep @ Jun 21 2017, 07:14 PM)
got doc confirmation?
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Doctor said he need special teacher. Kindergarten said he need special teacher, he can concentrate 5 minute only. We will meet doctor on this month for final result. We still keep looking best school for him.
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QUOTE(UbuntuClient @ Jul 3 2017, 11:21 AM)
Doctor said he need special teacher. Kindergarten said he need special teacher, he can concentrate 5 minute only. We will meet doctor on this month for final result. We still keep looking best school for him.
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Ok ...once u rcvd the doc confirmation letter only u can register at govt school PPKI (program pendidikan khas intergrasi) ...got 1 in puchong utama
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Anyone have any husband with confirmed Asperger's Syndrome? My husband has Aspergers, but he is highly highly functional and can have empathy. Do you think I should still try to conceive despite knowing my child could highly likely have Aspergers too?

 

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