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 DOTA and LOVE, DOTA and LOVE, which would you choose??

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post Sep 30 2010, 10:39 AM

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QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 02:16 AM)
Well. I will just make it short.
Me and my bf been together for like 2 years.
He is very into Dota. When we were back in Malaysia, when his mom and dad are at home, he didnt play that much.
And even if he play, im beside him watching or sleeping.
sometimes, i slept on his gaming sofa n he will carry me to room once he done playing.
To see him, to spend time with him, I learnt to play.
sometimes when i died or feed the game, then he is very unhappy.
most of our arguments came from his games.
His temper is not that good, that's the problem.

We came Perth. and now, its getting worse.
He woke up around 4pm, then eat then go campus play dota til 430am.
Sometimes i follow him. but sometimes if there are classes next day 8am then I will stay at home.
But i feel so boring staying at home.
and I dont like waiting the door to be opened.
I cried almost everyday.
I talked to him.
I tried to make him happy.
Things are still the same.

I even told him "if you continue to behave like that, Im sorry. Im not the girl suitable for you."
He continues playing.

I couldnt stand it anymore.
what else can I do?  sad.gif
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Don't pay too much heed on the comments that say DOTA > you. That's really not the case.

Obviously the guy takes his DOTA too seriously. You also need to question yourself "what is it that Dota has that I don't?" Then only you can start to attract his attention again.
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post Sep 30 2010, 01:25 PM

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QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 12:42 PM)
DENG!!!
the ticket i bought de lo.
and he stayed here in my place.
everything i pay.
This one i can say publicly coz ths is a fact and its real.
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so umm... when you dump him you let me know ok? I no play DOTA one wub.gif
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post Sep 30 2010, 03:04 PM

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QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 03:02 PM)
Coz back in Malaysia his parents would stop him. But it's getting worse when he came Perth. In Malaysia he only play 6 hours per day. Now 12.
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Aiseh... just pretend to trip over the computer's power cord while he is playing la, hahahah

If he's angry then just say lor "wah DOTA only what, why you so angry? You fail your exams that time see your parents more angry or you more angry" haw haw!!
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post Sep 30 2010, 03:32 PM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Sep 30 2010, 03:27 PM)
shocking.gif  You're paying for his studies??

It's clear now why you're still hanging on to him - because you've already invested so much. But I don't think it's a very good investment loh.  rolleyes.gif
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Dude has you a reading glasses?
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post Sep 30 2010, 03:52 PM

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QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 03:46 PM)
He loves me actually just now he loves dota too. I think.

Not you think lah. Confirm he loves you lah, he just hasn't gotten his head straight. You just need to show him there are other things besides DOTA (and not you either)

QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 03:46 PM)
All these times I thought I should do something for him. But I'm very tired dy. Very very tired dy. I don't have the courage to let go.
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See, since you already know the situation, you'll have to consider can you live with him as a failure? Or do you have what it takes to straighten him out?


If things don't work out, remember to PM spanker first wub.gif

This post has been edited by spanker: Sep 30 2010, 03:53 PM

 

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