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 DOTA and LOVE, DOTA and LOVE, which would you choose??

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wInnIe PoOh
post Sep 30 2010, 09:39 AM

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QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 02:16 AM)
Well. I will just make it short.
Me and my bf been together for like 2 years.
He is very into Dota. When we were back in Malaysia, when his mom and dad are at home, he didnt play that much.
And even if he play, im beside him watching or sleeping.
sometimes, i slept on his gaming sofa n he will carry me to room once he done playing.
To see him, to spend time with him, I learnt to play.
sometimes when i died or feed the game, then he is very unhappy.
most of our arguments came from his games.
His temper is not that good, that's the problem.

We came Perth. and now, its getting worse.
He woke up around 4pm, then eat then go campus play dota til 430am.
Sometimes i follow him. but sometimes if there are classes next day 8am then I will stay at home.
But i feel so boring staying at home.
and I dont like waiting the door to be opened.

I cried almost everyday.
I talked to him.
I tried to make him happy.
Things are still the same.

I even told him "if you continue to behave like that, Im sorry. Im not the girl suitable for you."
He continues playing.

I couldnt stand it anymore.
what else can I do?  sad.gif
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I notice something here, so you wanting the attention from him also right? Well, to be honest, if he is addicted to it then let him be la. I don't see a reason why should you learn DotA at the first place. Furthermore, you can't compare like that. You already be with him for 2 years, yet now only complain? If he is such a hardcore player, you'd have already know about it since day 1 then why now only want to make a big fuss about it? So, either you leave it or take it. Either way, it's still you got to fix your own life first.
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post Sep 30 2010, 09:39 AM

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or mayb he havent improved playing dota..feeding all d time lol.. either he fast end, or u end him fast
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post Sep 30 2010, 09:42 AM

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use your upper and lower base to control his dota. lol


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post Sep 30 2010, 09:43 AM

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Sorry, I never play DOTA & I don't understand what so addictive with protecting pixels tower.

I will definitely go for love, only if I can get.
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post Sep 30 2010, 09:47 AM

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i played dota once...then never touch the game, never like the game...i dont und the hype for it...shakehead.gif
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post Sep 30 2010, 09:58 AM

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QUOTE(gundamsp01 @ Sep 30 2010, 09:47 AM)
i played dota once...then never touch the game, never like the game...i dont und the hype for it...shakehead.gif
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lol same like I dont understand y ppl love gundam tongue.gif no offense just different hobby.


Added on September 30, 2010, 9:59 am
QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 02:16 AM)
Well. I will just make it short.
Me and my bf been together for like 2 years.
He is very into Dota. When we were back in Malaysia, when his mom and dad are at home, he didnt play that much.
And even if he play, im beside him watching or sleeping.
sometimes, i slept on his gaming sofa n he will carry me to room once he done playing.
To see him, to spend time with him, I learnt to play.
sometimes when i died or feed the game, then he is very unhappy.
most of our arguments came from his games.
His temper is not that good, that's the problem.

We came Perth. and now, its getting worse.
He woke up around 4pm, then eat then go campus play dota til 430am.
Sometimes i follow him. but sometimes if there are classes next day 8am then I will stay at home.
But i feel so boring staying at home.
and I dont like waiting the door to be opened.
I cried almost everyday.
I talked to him.
I tried to make him happy.
Things are still the same.

I even told him "if you continue to behave like that, Im sorry. Im not the girl suitable for you."
He continues playing.

I couldnt stand it anymore.
what else can I do?  sad.gif
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maybe u shud join scourge and feed him to cheer him up. tongue.gif
anyway, cheers.

This post has been edited by kaijun90: Sep 30 2010, 09:59 AM
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post Sep 30 2010, 10:05 AM

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QUOTE(kaijun90 @ Sep 30 2010, 09:58 AM)
lol same like I dont understand y ppl love gundam tongue.gif no offense just different hobby.


Added on September 30, 2010, 9:59 am

maybe u shud join scourge and feed him to cheer him up. tongue.gif
anyway, cheers.
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nope, not really fanatic about gundam, i dont collect any figurine or gundam...just happened to like the animation and design only tongue.gif
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post Sep 30 2010, 10:09 AM

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yes..dota is addictive..
used to be there b4,bout 4 years..but as time passed, he will realize that real life is out there..if he not dumb enuf lor..
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post Sep 30 2010, 10:26 AM

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We actually broke up many times. then he came n get me back.
Last semester, when i really didnt want to get back to him, he flew to perth and get me back.
I was touched then get back to him.
But things didnt change.
It get worse.
I treasure this relationship a lot.
you are addicted as well?
Then what do you choose?


1st, from my perception, ur bf is rich kid.. even flew to perth to get u back.. that cost alot of $$ drool.gif drool.gif
2nd, u were actually touched by his $$.. not i saying u love ur bf because of money, but , let say ur bf is not dat high class, will he be able to fly to perth and get u back? ? i think he wont right . . yawn.gif

I xperienced many sad n sweet memories from relationship.. u shuld try to move on.. it just 2 years relationship, u r still young.. if u continue to stay with him, hw long are u willing to be patient with ur bf attitude.

girl, thre are alot of men outside their waiting for u.. even they will treasure u more than evrything.. i too, was a dota player.. vry2 addicted still same case like this, but, my gf left me for that reason.. im chnged for that..

i got 1 suggestion for u, u break up with him.. he fly to perth to get u back, just ignore him.. Ignore evyrthing about him.. yeah, i know, this is hard for u, but trust me, it will work! nod.gif just for 1 mnth.. if he still wait for u, that mean he is the man for u but if he doesnt, then move on ur life.. he is not the man for u..

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post Sep 30 2010, 10:38 AM

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QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 02:16 AM)
Well. I will just make it short.
Me and my bf been together for like 2 years.
He is very into Dota. When we were back in Malaysia, when his mom and dad are at home, he didnt play that much.
And even if he play, im beside him watching or sleeping.
sometimes, i slept on his gaming sofa n he will carry me to room once he done playing.
To see him, to spend time with him, I learnt to play.
sometimes when i died or feed the game, then he is very unhappy.
most of our arguments came from his games.
His temper is not that good, that's the problem.

We came Perth. and now, its getting worse.
He woke up around 4pm, then eat then go campus play dota til 430am.
Sometimes i follow him. but sometimes if there are classes next day 8am then I will stay at home.
But i feel so boring staying at home.
and I dont like waiting the door to be opened.
I cried almost everyday.
I talked to him.
I tried to make him happy.
Things are still the same.

I even told him "if you continue to behave like that, Im sorry. Im not the girl suitable for you."
He continues playing.

I couldnt stand it anymore.
what else can I do?  sad.gif
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my bf during uni days was something like that but it was cybercafe. only get to see him if i was willing to play games at the cyber cafe. we were going out for 18 months before i got fed up and dumped him. guys like that are not ready for a committed relationship. u need to take care of yourself and your heart.


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QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 02:16 AM)
Well. I will just make it short.
Me and my bf been together for like 2 years.
He is very into Dota. When we were back in Malaysia, when his mom and dad are at home, he didnt play that much.
And even if he play, im beside him watching or sleeping.
sometimes, i slept on his gaming sofa n he will carry me to room once he done playing.
To see him, to spend time with him, I learnt to play.
sometimes when i died or feed the game, then he is very unhappy.
most of our arguments came from his games.
His temper is not that good, that's the problem.

We came Perth. and now, its getting worse.
He woke up around 4pm, then eat then go campus play dota til 430am.
Sometimes i follow him. but sometimes if there are classes next day 8am then I will stay at home.
But i feel so boring staying at home.
and I dont like waiting the door to be opened.
I cried almost everyday.
I talked to him.
I tried to make him happy.
Things are still the same.

I even told him "if you continue to behave like that, Im sorry. Im not the girl suitable for you."
He continues playing.

I couldnt stand it anymore.
what else can I do?  sad.gif
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Don't pay too much heed on the comments that say DOTA > you. That's really not the case.

Obviously the guy takes his DOTA too seriously. You also need to question yourself "what is it that Dota has that I don't?" Then only you can start to attract his attention again.
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post Sep 30 2010, 10:45 AM

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back to root cause, DOTA = DUNIA ORANG TANPA AWEK. take it or leave it
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post Sep 30 2010, 11:07 AM

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You just got pawn by DotA itself. Guys who are sooo madly "in love" with dota doesn't deserves a girl like you. Go find someone else.
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Any guy in lowyat is better than your guy ... hahahahah sry, just jk smile.gif Don't take it serious.
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post Sep 30 2010, 11:13 AM

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The problem here isn't DOTA, as some posters have implied.

It is the same universal problem of my bf/gf likes <insert hobby, job> more than me. If you think he just isn't into the relationship any more, just end it.
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post Sep 30 2010, 11:14 AM

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find a better guy with more ambition la

u wouldnt want to b with a guy who only play games and duno shit bout outside world and cant finish his studies.

later cant even land a job and provide financial stability lagi worse.

you think u can LOVE DRINK WATER FULL a?
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QUOTE(spiritbreaker_33 @ Sep 30 2010, 10:45 AM)
back to root cause, DOTA = DUNIA ORANG TANPA AWEK. take it or leave it
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Sep 30 2010, 09:59 AM)
People should go out, enjoy outdoor beauty instead of restricting themselves in front of the screen.
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post Sep 30 2010, 11:17 AM

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the problem is not with the DoTa la..its the gamer himself..

i have a few friends who's very pro in dota but still got a healthy love life...

you really should know when to stop..TS just dump him la...

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