hv you got wife?

if the guy is accountant and girl is a doctor can match or not? I want to look for the objective answer.
Many old people advised me not to be attached to the doctor. Doctor usually marries doctor too ma..
First I was positive but when being told by many people suddenly I become hopeless.

What I aware is she does not care about my money. I am 99% paid for the dating, gifts,etc.
She wants the luxury wedding(she is doctor ma) but with 100% of my money.
She likes buying expensive bags. 1 yr about 3 bags.

The positive she likes cooking, in a week she cooks mon-fri. The meals she cooks are very nice and delicious even better than expensive restaurants.

This post has been edited by leonhart88: Apr 4 2013, 01:01 AM

will it be applicable when you marry too?

we also need to think about the long term.

What if his father a gambler or his brother a gambler?
Then ask for borrow money from us then no pay to us?

thanks bro..
I am a serious person in relationship.

this is scary man..when you look at top there will be many people richer than you then how?
Should I cut loss now in my r/s to prevent more losses in the future? haha..
I saw her didn't care about my money..always me spend money on meals..
she expects guy should pay everything and she initiate to eat in expensive restaurant.
Once more she expects luxury wedding. all of my cash gone liao

This post has been edited by leonhart88: Apr 5 2013, 09:19 AM

ya I found younger girls 20-22 are very bad at personal financial management. my cousin has 200 clothes,50 shoes and around 20 bags. Those are branded thingy.

is this true?? Many wives kicked out their hubbies if the hubbies are lazy..
But I think he can invest time to invest in stock market using your money.
But you keep your money from him right? so will he ask u money if he needs?

ya don't be slave of money..see auditors work till death la..

I am in M&A field. less risky but hard to find lor.
Big companies has high expectation la, they wanna sell their biz consider gain or loss.
But fresh biz u get higher yield.

you can pass your money to your children la if u die

in future parents need to fark out money to buy properties for children.
My potential cousin's husband got new house from his dad worth RM700k liao.

Better to save and invest now. in future children will complain got useless parents coz they don't give them properties.

This post has been edited by leonhart88: Apr 6 2013, 12:49 PM

If he wanna marry then still rent ler? u not pity him? how can be a dad let his son like that.

Laguna apartment is cheap.

I don't want apartment in jakarta because
1. only 20 yrs leasehold(after that money gone if developer does not want to extend, extend also fark out much money)
2.maintenance fees per month already RM200.landed cheapo only RM50/mth guarded and gated
3.apartment u cannot hv farm in your land.

then what landed house will you recommend in Jakarta?
Pantai Indah Kapuk also expensive. In Pluit flood also at least RM 800k.
How can you afford the house there since the interest rates there killing. Because of that I invest in Bank shares.
Later our children cannot afford house in Jakarta, land already scarce there.
Avani BSD already ulu bro, to sudirman need 1 hr, even 2 hrs if traffic jam. the toll fees already cost u RM20/day.not mention the fuel not subsidised again by gov.

This post has been edited by leonhart88: Apr 8 2013, 01:08 PM

1.what strata? strata also need to extend after 20 yrs and the land is not strata, it's HGB.
2.guarded in muara karang cheap RM50
3.farm I mean just small gardening..like fruits,union,herbs.

may you recommend good guarded gates Rp 500 million in jakarta?

WTF..average income Rp3 million. work 10 yrs also cannot buy house you know.
let's assume they save Rp 3 million/mth, rp 40million/yr.

Just sharing. PT Greenwood Sejahtera, tbk currently traded at discount.

my gf is indonesian. coz of that high maintenance lor.. even her mother said many Indonesian guys buy gf iphone4, prada,hermes or even Honda Jazz as valentine/birthday gift.

Walau, many guys in Indon should be broke then..
yes, Indo Chinese one. somemore she is a doctor. I don't hv money lor. only 35k in stock market.
Don't expect she wanna marry me with wedding budget RM 25k. my cousin just has average wedding in Millenium Hotel RM 100k. It's average only.

Thanks for the proverbs bro.
Yes, doctor. The mother doesn't force me but tell stories about my gf sister's past ex who cherish her with much $$$..
Somemore, I am not hardworking and ambitious person.
I don't want to be broken either broken money or broken heart haha

May I know what industry are you in Indon?
I am just salaried worker here.lol