Morning Pink Spider,

  I used office internet. 14 hr * 6day = im at office.
  Yes i dont hv broadband and i dont own a laptop. I only hv a pentium 4 bought 2004 still tip top condition.

Im not kedukut, i chase with my wife with a penny in my pocket only and my love is unlimited.

"When got money and time, i can chase a gal, when i dont hv anything the gal can dumb/ignore me."

When i dating my wife, i told my wife the money i cant spend to her on fancy holiday or gift becoz i need to save and marry her.

I been thru heartbreak, and learn from my mistake. I dont need money and time to buy my wife heart.
I tell honest to my wife im not rich man, my father pass away ,i dont inherit any house from my parent, i bread and butter for my family.
I work hard in my jobs. I dont smoke.I dont go clubbing, I dont fancy car, i dont spend money unnecessary for me and my wife.
The reason she like me becoz im simple and poor man.

I dont need to use money but used my heart with honesty, humble and love to tame a wild horse.

Having a gf like a male jokey riding on a wild female horse with bag of money and time.
The wild horse will jump and shake me out ,  im using my time and my money bag to balance on the wild horse.
Once i lost my money bag and time bag , i will fall down and the wild horse will find another jokey to ride on.

Zoo Keeper taming a Female Lion
When ever the lion roar, the zoo keeper will feed the female Lion with meat day by day.
Once the Zoo Keeper dont have anymore meat; the female Lion will eat the Zoo Keeper heart and run away.

thanks, i work hard. My parent are poor, i have no choise to study hard and work hard.

After i study i join Tiger Bank, then i jump to AIG, then retrench join Holland Lion Insurance then now go back to Crown Jewel of Asia Insurance.

Dont find such gal, let other male chase them.

Chasing a gal like jokey riding a wild horse with bag of Money and Time.
Using money and time to balance for the gals. Once lost both money and time, the wild horse will kick jokey on her ride.
Very soon another jokey will ride on her back.

May I know how old are you now? This kind of girl totally extinct from this planet already .. well at least from KL ... nowadays no money no honey ... or the famous ada wang baru ada amoi .. where is your wife from and how old are u guys now ?

For personal fianancial - honest to gal is very helpful - for gal understand your background.  Courting/Chasing with gal high expectation - meanz need alot capital and time. the result can be you wife then must think about future for maintaining such wife.

Remember marry a women ; also need to marry their family too. " Wedding Dairy " actor ah niu.

Like  WongMunKeong said - marry a right person can be helpful.
Even i go holiday; my wife & 1 share 50:50.

your wife from where ? and your race ? Sry not to be racist but ... chinese KL girls ... really hard to find can juz mamak and handmade cards and stuff ... btw im chinese too ok .. no racist .. just the world as it is today ... any racist remark i will delete this straight away

she is KL gal. 

happy & capable woman  + no man = still a happy & capable woman that can help herself & contribute to world mar

no money how to buy puppy .... ok adopt .. how to feed puppy ... no money how ur kid grow ? how to be smarter and stronger ?

2nd bold is exactly the situation

wow.. this is starting to be a relationship, looking for future wife or gf thread.. hehe

a great or screwed-up life partner can greatly enhance or nuke one's personal finance leh
One of the few MAJOR impacts on personal finance

I think focusing on career is important, but at the same time, don't neglect relationship. This is the key learning I have. I consider myself "not that bad", in terms of financial, education and even career. However, I find that because I focused on career during my last 10 years, ended up, girls my age either taken or already become mother of others. My take is, if there is a girl out there you like, go ahead. Of course not to the extend of spending all your savings, if she is really gold digger, I don't think the relationship will last too. Anyway, I'm just saying, career + $$$ is important, but don't put it as priority as you might end up like me.

Why worry cant find gal? younger one is HOT and SeXY when we are old.

People feel lonely, and eventually, any next women/men that comes along...you settle down. Is it the best thing to do? God knows.

Well , do not always think ladies in KL  are  totally useless and suckers in nature.

They could be more capable in financial terms that u.

They could be better financial planners too.

Well, u have to perform up to the expectations lor.

Tell me where to get a 10K job in KL , and do not to work so hard one.