QUOTE(howszat @ Jan 21 2013, 10:08 PM)
>. Well, perhaps with objectives or reasons clear & focused, one would do better than just exchanging time/life/risk to chase after MORE $? Don't U think so?
No problems, I agree, it is "better", if you know what you want in 20 years. But that's not my point.
>. Oh well, of course if U insist that objectives/goals/reasons must be set in stone before planning ahead or knowing why we want the more $ for, then U live in a more perfect world than I heheh.
No, I did not say that. In fact, the opposite - most people don't know exactly what they want in say, 20 years. You may know you want $ now, but you may change into a monk in 20 years time. So you cannot set any realistic goals for 20 years ahead, except maybe very generic ones like I want to be rich, famous and completely happy, but then want something completely different in future. So it may be more relevant to look at say the next 1, 2 or 5 years and decide from there. If you want to try out Singapore $$$ in the next few years, and be a monk in 20 years time, why not? You would never know until you try it out.
>> To me, as long as i know where I want to be, I can take many different routes to the same/similar destination. As I travel, I can choose to vary or change th destination mar, right? But if I travel without some sort of destination or objective, I may be just drifting where the tides & currents take me. Can also ar but where I eventually arrive, I may not like lor
Agree. A plan is always useful. If you know what you want, great. But if not, go and earn that SG $ until you have a better plan rather than not doing anything. All I'm saying is you don't necessarily need a 20-year masterplan before making your next move.
Yup yup.
Hhehehe - 20 year master plan? no lar, can be fuzzy plan / logic mar, like a view in the horizon that U want to be.
When we have our sights set on something, no matter what options life throws us, we generally gravitate towards our set sights mar.
All i'm "selling" is the idea of knowing what we want, whether 1 yr, 3yrs, 5yrs etc.
Else, the fellow forumer may do like many of my buddies - go there to make $ (just $).
However, make more, spend more
and still b****ing to me about not having enough & needing to save more.
Why?
Coz when they went there, their values or reasons were JUST "make $".
Make $ for what? dunno.
Until how much? dunno, etc.
Thus, when they have extra $, spend lor - even into things which they'll never do in MY, like dirt bike and other Xtreme sports (breaking several bones, several times).
No probs with that if they enjoyed but why lar they seem to regret not having enough/saving/investing/etc.?
IMHO (just my simpleton POV yar, not gospel truth), they didnt KNOW what they want, thus no focus, thus just floating around.$
Just a thought