its not complicated, is that I think you have overindulge in your life plan

many things in life, if u plan in too detailed, chances are it won't go according to plan, u always said want to get married at age x, have kids at age y, after earning RM zz rite?? u re making as if ur gf or wife is an item of ur life project

for those over 30 year old maybe its normal to think like your ways, but at your age it isn't good to be too "rational" in love deal, get the 'feel' with her first, then only talk about the future

This post has been edited by dattebayo: Sep 18 2010, 01:12 AM

feel that she is right for you, feel that you have the urge to protect her and that her can bring you support when you need it

someone which can trigger your hormone and pulse

when you tend to rationalize everything, u will lose that kind of intuition

it should never be treated as one,

which kinda explains why engineering and science grads hard to score gurls

its good to have balance between rational and emotional, rational can feed you with foods but emotional can make your innerself more fullfilled

be a bit naughty, flirt, try not to plan too much things during outing, make surprises, anyway if u can somehow make her pinch you or hit you (not slap in the face ah) then you at least break the ice alrdy

this is what ppl at his age should do

plan for marriage, kids, $$$ pls postpone it to at least after graduation

even for me I also dun think stuff like this

to avoid being a doormat guy, u need to avoid treating her too good and being too gentleman is a no no

i dunno how to say more, but its been posted all over in CC before

these are the traits i observed through my friends and surroundings, i am adapting in that direction yo
few years back then i was a damn nerd

ur challenge is to change the perception of LYN of you

alternatively u can use a dupe

make some friends that are cheerful, notti, outgoing type

soon u will become one

notti is notti, but sometimes u need to demonstrate that u re someone that can take responsibilities

monkey D Luffy from One Piece kind of person..

those re different..

i mean, while you can be crazy, playful, talk crap and so, but when it comes to moment that need to be serious, you be serious

this shows that you can be flexible and humorus while equally reliable and dependable

this is for the case where the girl already have interest in the guy, not the other way round

nao all batang talk de
where that monky go

what car

hye

ya.. taken some flu pills, good time to sleep

out of sync

ahem.. siggy much much over 70kB

i dun mind, but if u lurk in /k/ often chances re it will get nuked in no time

sleep lah

what u guise talking bout the TS?