i think u think too much.....@_@
a bus full of perverts? it's like in JAV scene.......-.-"

there r many good people of there.
in fact, there way more good people & those perverts u talking about is only small percentage of the society....

p/s, u covered up, but i think it must b tight.....

there is a fine line between precaution & paranoid......
u dont hav 2 cross it........

was taking a nap just now....=.=

yeah, there is bad people out there, but there is a lot of good people who willing to help too.

speaking of self defense, last time my gf (b4 she bcom my gf) was in train.
& there is some dude sticking his hand into her bag & try to steal her HP.
luckily she spotted it & proceed to beat the guy to the ground.
my gf is small & look adorable & vulnerable, but damn she kick ass......
it happen near the door when the train just reaches a station. a guy from outside quickly pull her out b4 door closes, den later tell her better wait for next train, avoid being wit the thief on the same train.

actually she got learn self defense bck in school last time.
& i do support girl having som knowledge of self defense.

as for flasher story, i can say it is unavoidable.
every girl i know, frens & family, sure got story of encounter flasher b4......

Am just wondering what's sexy to you exactly?

Isit always by what we wear (like short skirt, low-tops, or even revealing g-string)??? most of my guy friends think so although I had known a guy who once told me that he is even "turn-on" by certain moaning sound when gal bang her toe...to him that is very sexy. 

Opening this thread in getting gals opinion.

I covered up, not sure if I ignored him by just "what" him, and I can't move on just like that. Ignorance is blissful, yes, but a hazardous move when it comes to delicate stuff like these. Should I wait for something to happen then only for an action to be taken? rather than repair, isn't it better to prevent? If a creep just stared, then ok. Lucky~.. ! But if the creep's persistent, ikut, or got up and approach me or something more then just stare, what should I do? If anything happens, it would be partially my fault for not being prepared and take precaution. Luck favours the prepared.  I want to be prepared. Maybe cos I'm a girl, I give stuff like these more thoughts.

If I get off the bus and while walking to my destination, the guy follows but I was unaware (later kidnapped/raped/whatever), it's not partially my fault for being so clueless in public? if while walking the guy walks quickly by me and grope, is it not my fault for being unaware that he's near, and the fact that I should be since the creep has been staring with malign for almost an hour?

What if it wasn't in such situation? what if the bus was full and the creep had sat next to me? I would have stood up, definitely, but what if I sat by the window? I can't escape, can I? What the hell should a girl do to even feel remotely safe in public?! It's frustrating to go for any public amenities having to take such precautions and so much tedious little details. If it was at night, alone, and lo and behold, sakit perut; cirit birit, in quiet public area, but a public toilet nearby;  as a guy, you'll enter no? but as a girl... I rather look for 7-11 or pharmacy to get sakit perut ubat, or something that I make me able to tahan till I get some where safer.

I yada yada yada so panjang, you get me? I don't think girls should wait for something to happen without taking more possible precautions. I want to know more precautions I can take should my situation had a worst case scenario.

Precaution? Don't go out at night. If the creep is stupid enough to follow you just go to somewhere crowded or just go out with your bf. It's actually plain common sense or get a car so that you would not need to take public transport again.

And why is it if you sat by the window you can't escape? You can't stand up and walk away ?

hahaa
watching kungfu movie is very different wit the real deal......
actually is very ez to learn those self defense technique.

btw, i do agree dat female shud hav som form of protection in their bag/purse like taser, pepper spray...etc....(& condom...... )
where can buy pepper spray? i wan get 1 for my gf as well.....

dealing wit flasher, the problem is women scare, scream & run away. dis is wat excite the flasher.
like u say, now a days who dont hav camera HP.
girl shud just stay calm, calm tek out the HP & snap photo & den GTHO.
if got pepper spray, go spray his junk....oh yeah!

i think my gf do get complacent....
ntgh ever happen to her since v 2gether.....
i dont prefer her tak public transport alone.
sometimes she no transport after say after class o shopping, i would rather go fetch her myself.

wat was the topic again?.....

Then just imagine you're taking a plane going through a lot of turbulence lor. hahahah

My car keys was the one with pepper spray... so I don't have it with me that time. Like I said, I got complacent liau.
Ace hardware's got one, pretty strong. RM49.50. Safe Guard.

Itu flasher, my last encounter, was a chinese guy. I so happen to carry experiment home. I can't remember what it was but it was something acidic, pH5-6 nia. It was blue, I think dissolved sodium sulfate with dillute HCl. I cabut the rubber stopper and splash it on his thing.  He sped off. lol. My other friends, the flasher was indian, this time, they all stood there laughing at him. When the flasher didn't speed off but got angry, they started whacking him with heavy school bags. lol. Like I said, flashing is so common, student in my school are no longer fazed by it. There was once, I think malay guy, flash my cikgu... and my cikgu carried pen knife, she threaten him and sent him police station straight. Damn funny wei.... I watching the entire thing from across the street.

I don;t like public transport either. Cos it's not safe. And when I have to, so many details to take care off before going out. Cannot dress up oso.

....... I am not paranoid. I just prefer being prepared. I have been paranoid. Like jumping at the mere puttering motor of a bike riding by too closely to me. For years. At that sound, without your brain registering what that sound is yet, your body goes stiff and still, you can feel your heart race, working so hard at pumping blood it felt like your heart vibrating your chest and trying burst out, the nauseating fear, andreline rush, the moment your brains actually register that sound, you already jumped away. You don't even have to see it coming. Your body automatically reacts. and the fact that jumping away, creating only 1 metre difference does almost nothing is freaking irritating.

I have been paranoid. I hate that feeling. This a reason why I take such precaution and such extend at protecting myself. I hate reacting without effect. I hate being helpless. I hate the feeling of being helpless. I hate not being in control when I can. I hate not doing something that could have made a difference. I hate the distress.

I got through that jumpy-paranoid phase when I read more bout self defense, getting myself a pepper spray, simulating possible scenarios over and over. So that when something happens, my body reacted accordingly without having to remember. Just reacting instinctively. I can make myself react faster and effectively too.

I bet you never jump away at the mere sound of a motor riding too closely to you. It's not the same at jumping when a dog suddenly barked ferociously at your feet.

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Added on September 29, 2010, 8:03 pmeh, tech3910, you online now is it? I'll wait for your reply. but i go makan now first. haha, ta!

At that sound, without your brain registering what that sound is yet, your body goes stiff and still, you can feel your heart race, working so hard at pumping blood it felt like your heart vibrating your chest and trying burst out, the nauseating fear, andreline rush, the moment your brains actually register that sound, you already jumped away. You don't even have to see it coming. Your body automatically reacts. and the fact that jumping away, creating only 1 metre difference does almost nothing is freaking irritating.

They flash you, then you smart enough and say , "Yuks not nice one".

When I was clubbing in UK, there are females who flash their tits. Nobody gives a damn about it and just cheered when they do that.

You're being paranoid. You have to simulate scenarios over and over? If that's not paranoid what is?
The way you describe yourself reminds me of a passage from a Mills and Boon, whenever the guy starts to makeout with the girl. LOL.

u guys are way off topic.