caucasian hair is diff.

i was asking my hairstylist the same thing n he said hard for asian hair to do that. unless u leave ur hair long or u got really soft hair.

my hair also same so i usually ask them to cut shorter so the "sticking up " effect not so obvious. but this new hairstylist says i shud not cut short coz when the hair gets longer other parts will flatten n d back will stick up...not proportionate. so he maintain d length n thin down the back. still sticks up ut easier to style. i usually just spike it up a bit not not flatten it