okay toda.. since u asked.. i'll reveal a bit about myself : p
this is what i see from my perspective..
it's not easy to find someone that u like and that person like u back.. i've never really liked anyone for quite some time already till now (prolly more than 2 years)
being in a relation requires alot of sacrifices..
time, money, attention, tolerence, responsibility etc etc etc..
but at the same time u will enjoy happy times together.. if u LOVE the girl..
for me to be in a r/s, the GIRL has to be someone I think worth making the sacrifices for and at the same time having the same feelings and thoughts towards me.. not easy rite? hehehe
thats from the logical point of my mind.. HOWEVER.. there are exceptions too.. like the one below
that being said.. ppl with experience say.. most important is FEELINGS.. when it comes it happens.. like they alllll say.. though i haven't encounter it yet..
+999 to your quote. It's what I view as well.