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Group LYN Buddhism Retreat - SERIOUS TALK, No trolling please
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Feb 25 2022, 02:18 AM
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My wish is to have a 3 days 2 nights kind of 'get away' from the hectic City life...to be among Buddhists where there is meditation....chantings...and eating 100% Vegetarian meals. Anyone knows where I can join this in Klang Valley?
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Feb 26 2022, 12:36 PM
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QUOTE(Garysydney @ Feb 26 2022, 05:33 AM) These type of retreats are very popular in Sydney (sorry my experience is only in Sydney as i have lived 40 years there). I attend a regular monthly get together in the Buddhist Library where we talk about living our life as a Buddhist and we solve problems the 'Buddhist' way and they talk about their experience during the retreat. I have never attended retreats as i practice on my own mostly - there are so many in Sydney (Blue Mountain) and they are very popular with a lot of Sydneysiders because they find this a good way to de-stress from work life. I used to meditate a lot and now generally find myself to be a very calm person (due to my higher level of mindfulness) - i used to get upset and irritated quite easily before i learnt Buddhism. Buddhism has changed me and my life completely and i wish to wish this good karma (to have been able to cross the path) will remain with you. thx buddy for your advice. I remember when I was a fanatical Christian, I will join the 3 days 2 nights church camps in Port Dickson, Sitiawan, Genting and Pangkor. Those were the times where I got to recharge my weary mind and body. Felt so much better after each camp...happier and less irritated. Now that I no longer to go church or believe all the fairytale stories in the Bible, I found myself drawn to Buddhism and its logical teaching.
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Feb 26 2022, 09:01 PM
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QUOTE(Garysydney @ Feb 26 2022, 08:50 PM) Religions around the world has its purpose - as long as it makes a person happier and wiser then it is a good religion. Not all people are suited to one religion and depending on one's mentality and personality, one religion may be more suited to that person than another. As for myself, i am a person who likes to question things rather than rely on supernatural forces to guide me. I like to question things and always ask 'why?'. I always remember 25 May 2000 as the day when i read one of Dalai Lama's books (Ancient Wisdom, Modern World) and that book changed my life altogether. After that, i bought every book that i could find in any bookshop that was written by Dalai Lama. I was so crazy about Buddhism!! In early 2004, someone introduced me to Theravada and slowly i moved across. I was so crazy about meditation i was meditating 10 hours a day everyday (i had a very cushy job at Sydney Uni with my own room so i was meditating even at work). My level of mindfulness is quite strong due to a long period (about 15 years) of constant meditation (mainly vipasanna meditation). I think i have written enough about my path and hopefully you will benefit (like i have) on your path to nibbana.  Thx for yoru sharing. Woh...10 hours a day meditating??
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Feb 26 2022, 09:53 PM
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QUOTE(Garysydney @ Feb 26 2022, 09:32 PM) Yes - Buddhism was my life then. I also attended a lot of Dharma talks and attended a lot of talks from quite a few Ajahns (from Thailand). My book collection on Buddhism was so extensive and i had to donate them all to the Buddhist Library (Church Street, Camperdown Sydney) when i came back to KL. I was so keen on meditating and my level of mindfulness now is quite strong - in my daily life my level of awareness is quite strong and it also contributes to my good memory. I am the youngest in my family and my parents spoilt me badly - i was given everything in life. My parents even bought me a unit to live in when i was studying in Uni (Sydney) in a good suburb so i never really had to struggle much in life. That unit is worth worth twice my Bangsar Baru house (Sydney properties are very expensive) which i also inherited. Imagine my ego before i learnt Buddhism (super big) because life has been so smooth for me. I had a very good career at Sydney Uni (job for life) with a very good package (i finished off on a lecturer's pay) after working 31 (continuous) years and had a very good payout (a golden handshake) when i left. My payout is very close to a million ringgit because i had a lot of unused long service leave (more than one year) and annual leave. I felt something was missing in my life even though life has been very rosy for me. I found that something after i read that Dalai Lama book in May 2000. Nowadays i am a lot more humble in life and wiser so for me Buddhism has been my saviour - i think without Buddhism my life would have been very miserable.  good to see Buddhism helped you tremendously. I am on the right path now then
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Feb 27 2022, 09:00 PM
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Follow the 5 precepts and we cant go wrong. however, I am a social drinker and I dont see anything wrong with that
This post has been edited by empire: Feb 27 2022, 09:01 PM
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Feb 28 2022, 08:49 PM
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QUOTE(Garysydney @ Feb 28 2022, 07:39 PM) I am a follower of Ajahn Chah's teaching. At one stage, i was so keen on reading the nikayas. I bought quite a few volumes and spent quite a few years reading them over and over again. The teachings are so profound and i have benefitted so much from it. I have been very lucky throughout my whole life - sometimes i attribute my success to Buddhism. Without it, i would have been lost. People around me told me that i changed a lot after i started reading Buddhist books in 2000. I used to get irritated (even though externally i was calm but internally there was a volcano brewing). Nowadays i am quite mindful in daily life and any events that irritate me tend not to exist for long ( i am very good at letting go). Money solves a lot of problems which may be the reason why i don't have much problems other than those problems that money cannot solve. With those problems that money cannot solve, i can see the impermanence in everything. I have undergone death meditation for quite a long period of time and now view my death as quite a natural path of existance. I love going to cemetaries because i know i will end up there one day so i don't have much attachment to life. Whats 'death meditation' ?
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Feb 28 2022, 10:33 PM
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QUOTE(Garysydney @ Feb 28 2022, 09:00 PM) Death meditation is commonly used by monks in Thailand. It is to get you ready for death so when seath happens, you are ready for it. A lot of monks in Thailand and Burma meditate in cemetaries so wherever they look, they are confronted with death. After a while practising death meditation, you will look at death as very 'normal' and you will not fear death. I always dream about myself on my deathbed (the last few minutes of my life) - this is very common for people who thinks about death all the time (due to the death meditation training). It doesn't mean you are going to kill yourself or have the intention to kill yourself (as in suicide) BUT it just means you are ready for death anytime. It just makes a person see reality and understand the meaning of what life is all about. In other words, this is emptiness (or some call it void) which Buddhist realise upon gaining enlightenment. May Buddhism bring you happiness in life. Oh...I saw this in youtube before. An old Thai Monk said goodbye to all his fellow younger monks, and lay on the floor for a few mins and died. Amazing!
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Jul 5 2022, 11:53 PM
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i know this is not a Buddhism question, but does anyone know of any temple that has Deities entering Mediums in Klang Valley?
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Jul 6 2022, 11:24 AM
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QUOTE(Gratitude2022 @ Jul 6 2022, 06:30 AM) I know a master but not in temple. Tamboon also based on how much you wanna give. Will pm you his info if you want. whats tamboon?
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Apr 14 2023, 11:30 AM
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GAUTAMA Buddha never said ' Light up joss sticks and oil lamp in front of my Statue and bow to me'. Gautama NEVER said this! Dont know who the 'wise guy' who thought it will be a good idea to hold 3 joss sticks, light up oil lamp and bow to Gautama's statue. when I asked these ' Buddhists' why they do that... they all said cos their sifu said must do. Why their sifu said must do? cos the sifu's sifu also said must do.....and so on and so on. Buddha wants us to follow his teaching, not worship him! You understand or not?
All these joss sticks, oil lamp and bowing to him is NOT what he taught us. Humans are the ones who wanna be pandai and started creating this ritual. Why? The most common answer is : Oh...cos we wanna show respect to him....so we do all these la'.
Do NOT buta2 be a 'monkey see, monkey do' Buddhist. If you wanna follow Gautama's teaching, you do NOT light up joss sticks, oil lamp and bow to his statue. He never teach us to do this...so why you wanna do? just cos your sifu tells you to? Why be a 'Monkey see, monkey do' Buddhist?
If You can show me any proof that Gautama said we must Light up joss sticks, oil lamp and bow to his statue....then I will believe you.
This post has been edited by empire: Apr 14 2023, 11:31 AM
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Apr 14 2023, 11:33 AM
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Buddhism is not a religion as it doesnt tell us to pray to any god. Taoism is a religion as it involves praying to deities and spirits and rituals are very important.
Both are different.
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Apr 14 2023, 12:17 PM
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Buddhism is never a religion. There is no ritual involved.... except by those 'monkey see, monkey do' Buddhists.
Religion is Anything that involves praying to Deities and spirits...with Rituals involved.
Buddhism is NEVER a religion.
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Apr 15 2023, 02:22 AM
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QUOTE(TiramisuCoffee @ Apr 14 2023, 01:16 PM) Buddhism is just a way of life… a philosophy…? Correct. Only ' Monkey see, Monkey Do' Buddhists will hold joss sticks, burn oil lamp and bow to Buddha's statue ...as if he as is a god. This is soooo wrong!
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