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SpikeMarlene
post Aug 15 2010, 12:45 AM

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QUOTE(gogo2 @ Aug 15 2010, 12:29 AM)
For me, All about Religion always like Believers (abrahamic religion vs the rest of the world).

While this thread is about Buddhism vs Atheist...

Since Buddhism always like to say they are philosophical but actually they are not if they delve
deeper. This probably the most misleading thing about Buddhism. Lured you in by promising the
most logical religion ever existed.But when you're in and delve deeper, the same supernatural
thing like Christian exist.

At least, Christian are totally honest about it. THey said we're supernatural. Need faith to understand.
But Buddhism instead tell us, hey, no supernatural. All philosophical. Yeah right.
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Well said. It is exactly the stuff that i was arguing with these buddhists and some of them even got mad at me. LOL. I was really surprised at that time because like what you said buddhists being wise and reasonable, practice some form of detachment but yet they displayed the same behavior as would believers of abrahamic religions, taunting and cursing.

Buddhism is a religion and it has supernatural elements. While it's philosophical views of life may be enlightening, you need to have faith to believe.
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post Aug 15 2010, 02:05 AM

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QUOTE(dreamer101 @ Aug 15 2010, 01:49 AM)
SpikeMarlene,

<< Buddhism is a religion and it has supernatural elements. While it's philosophical views of life may be enlightening, you need to have faith to believe.>>

Who say so??

One type of Buddhism has supernatural elements.  You DO NOT have to believe in that kind of Buddhism.  You can choose something else.

For example, can you claim that Tibetan Buddhism to represent all kinds of Buddhisms??

Just because one dog is black, it does not mean all dogs are black.

For example, Zen Buddhism do not care about re-incarnation and all those super-natural stuff at all.  Zen Buddhism does not care about any sutra at all.

Dreamer

P.S.:  For a TRUE Buddhist, there is NO POINT in arguing with anyone.  If it works for you, choose this.  If not, do something else.  There are NO BROWNIE point for making people to believe in Buddhism.
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So what does zen buddhism have?
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post Aug 15 2010, 09:36 AM

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QUOTE(dreamer101 @ Aug 15 2010, 02:11 AM)
SpikeMarlene,

Just live your life.  Do the RIGHT stuff and avoid doing the WRONG stuff.  Back to the basic.

KNOWING is NEVER the problem.  People KNOW.  They just cannot DO.  Reading more sutras will not help since KNOWING is never the problem to begin with.

Focus on doing and everything will be fine....

Let your living be a form of meditation.

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http://goto.bilkent.edu.tr/gunes/ZEN/zenstories.htm

When Tired

    A student once asked his teacher,

    "Master, what is enlightenment?"

    The master replied,

    "When hungry, eat. When tired, sleep."
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So zen is nothing more than living your life the way you want to?
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post Aug 15 2010, 10:37 AM

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QUOTE(dreamer101 @ Aug 15 2010, 10:05 AM)
SpikeMarlene,

Zen is about REALLY living your life.

You will be surprised on how hard is it to do that.

Dreamer
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I am really living my life as it is. Is that zen then? Or is there something I miss in my life?
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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Aug 15 2010, 10:35 AM)
the term 'supernatural' only applies to those who are uninitiated, to the ones who know....they are 'natural' elements of how things are.

And yes, all endeavours need some form of faith to begin. You dont know how to drive. I teach u how to drive. You will need faith to know that u may be able to drive after learning from me.
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How does something supernatural for the uninitiated is natural for the initiated?

Faith in driving is very different from faith in the supernatural. I can and do drive and I can demonstrate to you that I can drive eventually (after some training). My faith in something natural is very different from faith in something supernatural. Or to put that in an extreme example, how do you know your faith is not about something that does not exist?


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QUOTE(dreamer101 @ Aug 15 2010, 10:40 AM)
SpikeMarlene,

If you do, how could you miss ANYTHING?? You had done what you could at every moment of your life.  What else is there??

Dreamer
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So what is zen then, if there is nothing more than living?

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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Aug 15 2010, 10:37 AM)
]the difference is in the quality.
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Can you give some examples?
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QUOTE(dreamer101 @ Aug 15 2010, 10:59 AM)
SpikeMarlene,

Zen is living life to the fullest.  What else is there besides living??

Every morning, I enjoy a good cup of coffee.  I take my effort to slowly sip and enjoy my coffee.  That is a form of meditation.  Doing thing as it is.  Only mindful of coffee and nothing else.  That is a simple joy for me.  What do you do for yourself everyday??

When I do something, I put my full concentration and effort in it.  I do the best that I could.  I focus on the moment.  That is living to the fullest.

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That is not the meaning of living to the fullest. That is being aware of every single action in one's life, which I think is pretty stressful. Being aware is a good thing but being forcefully aware of every single action is hard and stressful. But why would I want to do that since living to the fullest means I enjoy my life to the fullest, of course within certain limits?
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post Aug 15 2010, 10:13 PM

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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Aug 15 2010, 11:07 AM)
for a person is who blind since birth...and only ever communicate with other blind-since-birth people, vision would be supernatural.
What would a blind person see? By saying something unknown and that explains supernatural (another unknown), what are you trying to explain?
QUOTE(teongpeng @ Aug 15 2010, 11:07 AM)

Added on August 15, 2010, 11:09 amthats when ones judgement is put to the test. sleep.gif

all buddhist practise are based on this principle, that one can actually experience it for themselves (after some training).
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The important point here is I can demonstrate my driving to you. Why? Because driving is a natural thing. How would that apply for a supernatural experience?
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post Aug 16 2010, 11:15 AM

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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Aug 15 2010, 11:02 PM)
you're too dense to understand that something is only supernatural to you because it is unknown to you. and according to you something unknown cannot be possible, thus when something unknown is taught by buddhism...it tarnish the image of the entire teaching. bodoh kan?
In other words you cannot explain what it is you are talking about. It is true because I said so, right?
QUOTE(teongpeng @ Aug 15 2010, 11:02 PM)
driving is a natural thing to those who know how to drive. just like supernatural experiences are indeed natural to those who know about them.
geeez dude....can u please dont polute a good thread with more dumbass questions?
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Here again you claim supernatural experiences are natural only to those who know them, so your argument is basically this. I cannot explain or describe it to you but it's true. Believe me. That line of reasoning has been used ad nausem. You are not spiritually attuned, you would not be able to see the invisible unicorn.


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QUOTE(dreamer101 @ Aug 15 2010, 10:23 PM)
SpikeMarlene,

<<pretty stressful.>>

Why??

When I drink my coffee, I want to be aware of the FULL RANGE of taste of the coffee.  That is JOYFUL.

LIVING is joyful.  Being aware just give you a fuller experience.

<<forcefully aware>>

Why does it has to be forcefully aware??

What if that is the NATURAL state of human being to begin with?? It is US that make us into unnatural state of ignorant.

Just watch some babies and toddlers play.  All things new are fun to them.  They are AWARE of their actions.  There are all JOYFUL to them.

<<sce living to the fullest means I enjoy my life to the fullest>>

If you are drinking a cup of coffee while thinking and doing a million other things, how could you enjoy the coffee??
I disagree. I enjoy my coffee while having a light conversation with my friend. Or reading the newspaper. Or casually looking into the distance while taking nice slow sips. To me by not being fully aware at that spilt second moment is joyful. I am not sure if you are conflating the issue of not being aware at all, like a person lost in a fantasy, to that of casual awareness which to me is sufficient to enjoy life to the fullest. Since this is quite subjective, I think it will be hard for everyone to agree that being fully aware at every moment is joyful. Again that is subjective what is meant by full and complete awareness.

But here I feel that somehow, there is a necessity for zen practitioner to be fully aware. Why is that? What is the benefit to be fully aware when I can enjoy my life by being casually aware. Well I can raise my awareness depends on the circumstances, like when I feel there is a thief in the house and I am creeping towards the source of the noise.
QUOTE(dreamer101 @ Aug 15 2010, 10:23 PM)
SpikeMarlene,

A story on stress.

Once upon a time, I work for a company that had major lay off every 3 months.  This lasted many years.  Over the last few years, I work for companies that have major lay off every year.  I do not feel stress and it is not too bad for me.  Meanwhile, for people that do not experience quarterly lay off like I do, this is a major source of stress for them.

What is the DIFFERENCE?? EXPECTATION.  I expected quarterly lay off and now it is once a year.  So, it is NOT too bad.  Others do not expect layoff for many years.  But, now, it is once a year.  It is BAD.

Who set the EXPECTATION?? We do.  The source of STRESS are within US.

I can tell you all those things but until you had experienced it and survived them, you do not really know what you will do under those circumstances.

Dreamer
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I have been to many meditation camps and I know (and also from talking to other practitioners at that time) it was quite stressful to silent one's mind and focus it to what is now.

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QUOTE(ray123 @ Aug 16 2010, 01:50 PM)
I don't follow nor agree with everything in the thread but I'm just reminded of the quote:

"Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence." - Carl Sagan
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I would somewhat disagree with carl sagan. Why? Absence of evidence is evidence of absence when you are expecting it. If you would apply this quote on something that is completely unknown, which you cannot anticipate the outcome from absence of evidence, then it is reasonable to say we do not know what this means, hence we cannot rule out it's existence.

However for example, a suspect was found bleeding with cut wound on his finger and he was accused of fighting with the victim which he denied. You expect to find traces of the suspect's blood at the crime scene and on the victim's bloodied clothing but you found none that belongs to the suspect. In this case absence of evidence is evidence of absence when you are expecting it.
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QUOTE(Deadlocks @ Aug 16 2010, 04:01 PM)
But according to your example, wouldn't it also mean that the suspect may have cleaned all his traces to avoid suspicion?
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Yes, but how do you know? What do you expect to find to prove your suspicion is valid? If you cannot find it what should you conclude?
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QUOTE(Deadlocks @ Aug 16 2010, 04:47 PM)
But that's the reason why there are criminal experts like the CSI right? The point is not to ASSUME that there's no evidence. It simply means that the absence of evidence is as good as the concealment of evidence.
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So what would the CSI conclude? That he is still guilty because they suspect he is hiding some evidence? If you expect the evidence to be there but you cannot find, what can you conclude? On top of that how do you know your suspicion is correct, that he is hiding evidence. You don't know, so as far as we are concern, as long as there is an absence of evidence, it is the evidence of absence when you expect it. Of course this is an example in principle of how investigation of reality proceeds and science does it a lot better because science can take it's time to grill the suspect to death and test it hundreds of times to make sure it is correct.

 

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