QUOTE(teongpeng @ Aug 15 2010, 11:02 PM)
you're too dense to understand that something is only supernatural to you because it is unknown to you. and according to you something unknown cannot be possible, thus when something unknown is taught by buddhism...it tarnish the image of the entire teaching. bodoh kan?
In other words you cannot explain what it is you are talking about. It is true because I said so, right?
QUOTE(teongpeng @ Aug 15 2010, 11:02 PM)
driving is a natural thing to those who know how to drive. just like supernatural experiences are indeed natural to those who know about them.
geeez dude....can u please dont polute a good thread with more dumbass questions?
Here again you claim supernatural experiences are natural only to those who know them, so your argument is basically this. I cannot explain or describe it to you but it's true. Believe me. That line of reasoning has been used ad nausem. You are not spiritually attuned, you would not be able to see the invisible unicorn.
Added on August 16, 2010, 11:42 amQUOTE(dreamer101 @ Aug 15 2010, 10:23 PM)
SpikeMarlene,
<<pretty stressful.>>
Why??
When I drink my coffee, I want to be aware of the FULL RANGE of taste of the coffee. That is JOYFUL.
LIVING is joyful. Being aware just give you a fuller experience.
<<forcefully aware>>
Why does it has to be forcefully aware??
What if that is the NATURAL state of human being to begin with?? It is US that make us into unnatural state of ignorant.
Just watch some babies and toddlers play. All things new are fun to them. They are AWARE of their actions. There are all JOYFUL to them.
<<sce living to the fullest means I enjoy my life to the fullest>>
If you are drinking a cup of coffee while thinking and doing a million other things, how could you enjoy the coffee??
I disagree. I enjoy my coffee while having a light conversation with my friend. Or reading the newspaper. Or casually looking into the distance while taking nice slow sips. To me by not being fully aware at that spilt second moment is joyful. I am not sure if you are conflating the issue of not being aware at all, like a person lost in a fantasy, to that of casual awareness which to me is sufficient to enjoy life to the fullest. Since this is quite subjective, I think it will be hard for everyone to agree that being fully aware at every moment is joyful. Again that is subjective what is meant by full and complete awareness.
But here I feel that somehow, there is a necessity for zen practitioner to be fully aware. Why is that? What is the benefit to be fully aware when I can enjoy my life by being casually aware. Well I can raise my awareness depends on the circumstances, like when I feel there is a thief in the house and I am creeping towards the source of the noise.
QUOTE(dreamer101 @ Aug 15 2010, 10:23 PM)
SpikeMarlene,
A story on stress.
Once upon a time, I work for a company that had major lay off every 3 months. This lasted many years. Over the last few years, I work for companies that have major lay off every year. I do not feel stress and it is not too bad for me. Meanwhile, for people that do not experience quarterly lay off like I do, this is a major source of stress for them.
What is the DIFFERENCE?? EXPECTATION. I expected quarterly lay off and now it is once a year. So, it is NOT too bad. Others do not expect layoff for many years. But, now, it is once a year. It is BAD.
Who set the EXPECTATION?? We do. The source of STRESS are within US.
I can tell you all those things but until you had experienced it and survived them, you do not really know what you will do under those circumstances.
Dreamer
I have been to many meditation camps and I know (and also from talking to other practitioners at that time) it was quite stressful to silent one's mind and focus it to what is now.
This post has been edited by SpikeMarlene: Aug 16 2010, 11:42 AM