Hi dear, you can register for a HopShopGo or vPOST account which will give you a US address to send to. Not sure though if Gap/Old Navy accepts Malaysian credit card now, they didn't yet when I started buying from them last year - and had to go through a lengthy verification process.  You can try though because now they ship international, so maybe they are more lenient liao.

Free shipping within US for orders $50 and above. If you're new, subscribe to the newsletter, and Gap will give you $15 off $75, and Old Navy will give you $10 off $50. That's a blast!

1. Which shipping rate do you mean? Gap? Yeah, shipping fee is pretty dear - that's why whenever I wanna get something there, I'll open up a spree.  Another good site is thechildrensplace.com

2. It will take a few days for the "order status" for Forever21 to change from "New". Usually takes 2-3 days, but I've experienced a delay as long as 1 week during sale period.  By the way, I'm selling F21 e-gift cards as well, which you may use to offset your order amount - just in case you're interested.

3. With regard to the Gap order, I wouldn't have mind canceling and re-ordering if not because some of the jeans I ordered for my nephew is already OOS.  I've been waiting for the jeans sale for like almost forever.  Yesterday they had a flash sale where it's only USD4.50 per pair, where the normal pair is USD 16.50 each. So it was a really, really, really excellent deal