Guys or girls, will you make love with someone you don't love?

There is a guy whom i really close to want to make love with me even he already have gf, i wonder why he want to do so. Is it because he got feeling on me or just want to have fun?

for fun

making love when not in love = f***ing around = just for fun = just scratching the itch

which also means he thinks with "the other head".

This post has been edited by teelim: Jul 5 2010, 03:59 PM

fun

u give him?

for fun lo..u gave?

jus giv la if both oso feels horny...

haha...u feel like want to give it??

obviously he wanna have fun..tell his gf la.. hahahaha

will give if he doesn't have gf. but since it is just for fun so no chance for him.

give it to me
im single now
hehehe

so ure THAT easy? guy asks, and u give? have some dignity, that guy obviously just wants to fcuk you.

also dont misuse the word "make love" in your case he just wants to "fcuk". People dont say "i'm making love to a whore", its just "i'm fcuking this whore" right?.

so if he serious u give la?

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Added on July 5, 2010, 4:25 pmis being horny a crime?

This post has been edited by zstan: Jul 5 2010, 04:25 PM

i don't know his gf though. if i did, i will be blamed for spoiling their relationship. bigger problem coming then.

that's lust not love/feel

make love = both hv feeling towards each other
fcuk = just for fun

apa ini, obviously is for fun rite .. duh ...

if we all say yes, give it to him, u will give ? gosh .. what happen to the society nowadays ?

it takes 2 to scratch an itch

i still can't find any girl give me wor.

same here
really difficult to find a GF nowadays

Dear Miss Obvious (or tarp?)

why so naive? are you THAT easy? gimme one solid reason why you should so called 'make love' to him.

and i will give you few reason why you need to avoid from being third party.
1 - that dude already have gf.
2 - if busted - they in war because of you.
3 - he don't love you.
4 - what do you feel when your future bf f*** some other b****es, or whores wimminz behind your back?
5 - your answer is equivalent to your level of dignity.

mebi you're looking at the wrong places... try TS

mod kata jangan..

better give me then....

i don't want to be the third party, but why he can't be loyal to his gf?? why still want to have a spare tyre??

value yourself. you can measure on how easy you give yourself to the other person. not to mention how the person will value you

have dignity. but if dont have one, go for it

No.

obviously he wanna have fun.
my ex bf has a gf and lately he ask me to have sex with him, his reason was because his gf does not want. after i scolded him, i've never talked to him since.

no offend, some of them cant live without sex. or they want to show off among their friend that they are able to have sex with girl.

how they show off?

He is just want some fun from you and play you around.
Don't Give la... Ok?

21st century wont get STD or AIDS ka?

still, it doesn't give them the right to cheat on their gf and have sex with someone else.

this is stupid

dont be stupid.

srsly

don't be silly. of course is for fun. and i certainly pity his gf. what a jerk. a guy who wants to make love to you doesn't mean he loves you. in fact, making love and loving u is 2 very different thing. really. don't fall for such guy.

u shld have slapped his head off the moment he said this to u. or at least kick his teeth in
every guy just want to try. they will say it as much as they can and see who will fall into the trap.
can be fcuk with feelings also what. feelings of LUST!
coz his kkj itchy. stop talking or be close to him ald!!!!!!
+1
bs lar. "making love" is just a disgusting way to describe sthg disgusting two ppl do.
if it's having sex it's having sex lar. say it nicely doesn't change what it is.

to avoid confusion about sex and love, stop saying "making love" whenever u have sex.
the less u hear the word "love" connected to sex, the less u will be confused. problem solved.

Girl, if you give him at the first time, sure he will ask for second time, because men are not fulfill their need.

I'm afraid I can't agree with you on this.
There's definitely differences between making love and have sex.
Well, perhaps in this case, making love should not be used, but i guess TS is using direct translation from chinese.
I do believe there's making love and have sex though.
Making love is not disgusting.
disconnecting "love" from sex will not solve the problem.
in fact, having love and sex in a relationship is just normal, maybe to you it's unacceptable, but to others it's just nornal, not disguting. but for TS case, it's definitely not normal.
Don't be naive

Thanks for all the advices.

This guy have make me confused. Thats why i need some opinions the clear me up. Now i think i already know what to do..

I've got a feeling ts is a guy...

I agree with misscreamypie.
Making love is a wonderful thing and is different from having sex but many still use the term "making love" as sex.
Sex is not disgusting.

Here already stated clearly the difference between making love and sex. He just want sex from me, not make love..

yes most guy just want sex dont really care much... as long as free...
he asking u cause maybe the GF is not giving him and u are a easy gal to get... this is why he ask u...

sex is good, do it as much as possible when u still young and attractive.
dun need to count so much is make love or just have sex.

hi ts..

i think u like him..if nt u wil straight reject n wont open tis thread.

don fall for such guy..is a jerk..reject him straight..avoid him..if nt he wil keep pursue u..

keep ur dignity..once u giv him wil have 2nd time..

You already stated in your siggy

TS, if u feel itchy and horny den go ahead.
the last time when i was itchy and my gf was away, i f*** my dog.

TiF,
are you serious? lolz...

and then my dog cum inside me, and i was freaking worry that i got pregnant by a dog. i was so worry that i will give birth to a freaking humandog baby.

but then i realize i am a man, and a man dun get pregnant by a dog. man will only get pregnant by another man and give birth to someone as stupid as TS.

wah if have baby what will that dog be? human body with dog head? or in reverse?

young ppl is always too horny...

haha.. u so funny

Nowadays being too kind to people also cannot. they will climb over your head. when he need my help i will help him if, now wan sex pula..

jus reject man..haha

if horny jus masturbate

nt worth giv those jerk

Guys are like this



Don't be the USB plug.

that's not called making love, it's called having sex.

And yes, I WILL have sex with a hot girl i don't love.

and ja, btw thread reported.

This post has been edited by spanker: Jul 6 2010, 04:40 PM

haha..can a girl ml wif a guy she don love?

guy can fool around girl oso can right?

Desire only... no commitment intact

its like a totally fake things hmm... why does this topic need to be open?

in between.... that guy is only looking for fun, if u r also looking for fun than go ahead... if not, steer clear AWAY!!!

+1

your picture pls

if u give me when he ask, then i feel u treating urself as w**re. sorry saying about that

that's not making love. that's wham bam thank you maam sex. you make love with someone you love, you have sex with someone you don't care about. and he just wants your body. Anybody wanna bet RM10 that he won't talk to her anymore after sex?

and yeah, you'd be cheap and easy if you fall for it.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jul 8 2010, 09:09 AM

Doesn't sounds like u care about sex or not, main thing is he got gf or not.
So if he no gf u will just let him have fun?

U need to remember ur parent will still love u somehow and have some idgnity for urself and to women out thr, or rearrange ur word to stop making ppl think u are so chiep

i oso wanna f***!! count me in!!

It just a lust on his part that could only be satisfy by making love with you. You on the other hand had some feeling for him. It is the thought of not wanting to be the third party in the relationship that restrained you. I you should stay away form him otherwise you will eventually give in to him.

i support what 'faceless' said...if you dun stay away from him...sooner or later u'll give to him no matter third party or not...

how old are you???

of coz wan to hv fun only.. he's not loyal to his gf also~

You are just being stupid of asking this kind of question here.

Why he want to do so? ROFLING MALAYSIANS ARE FAILURE.

me too

If you can think like this, why ask the question in the first place? It's a straight forward answer. The question we need to ask you is, are you horny? Only if you are horny will you be asking questions like this.

In fact, you should tell his girlfriend. Why let a guy treat a girl the way your friend does? Afterall, you didn't sleep with him. So, you are NOT THE THIRD PARTY. If this is what you call your close friend, can I be yours? Friend with benefits?

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Added on July 16, 2010, 12:19 pmYou should slap him and tell him you do not want to hear from him again if he ask you again. You are just horny and waiting for the right moment. If you don't avoid him now, you will eventually do it.

This post has been edited by matthewctj: Jul 16 2010, 12:19 PM

me 2

what the got gf already also f*** around?

It's TS who wants to do it ... she just blame it on the guy. It's such a simple answer but she can't answer it because deep down, and I mean deep deep down, she wants it.

can you even kiss a guy who you do not love? i cant make it. for me, IF... i wanna make love, i will 1stly fall in love 1st. going around, know his family, get close to him, plan everything, then i will start thinking of making love.. but prefer after marriage of course. if stil cant resist the horny feeling, just tell him that you want, but with dom,dom.. hehe..

for me, respect our dignity.. youve been keeping it for a long time, why you simple wanna give to a person who you dont even know love you or not..

for me.. it just for FUN.. not because of anything else..

I think from the way u ask this question, you got feeling on him. If not, you wont bother to ask. U just wanna find someone to encourage you to sleep with him. Im totally not agree with that. It's like u having betray his gf. Before making out with him, try to ask urself; do you mind your bf f***ing with another b****?

it hurts me so bad seeing this.

I don't think so that he love you.But give him a chance to prove that he really love you and do not come for only have fun.

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This post has been edited by davidtwhittle: Jul 26 2010, 10:32 PM

Agree !

do you have feeling for him too.. if yes jump in the boat.. if no ask him to enjoy his GF

There are difference between made love and have s3x around.

Even I have no experience but I also can know. Well, it is common sense which all the mature people or even kids knows.

Make love = Both love each other
have S3x around = have fun, no serious a.k.a one night stand


Well, you know why he dares to ask u for it? because in his eye, u are an easy cheap girl who can get poke anytime. another stupid prey that he can play with and gf won't know about it.

Yes.. he is a jerk and not loyal bf.. So watch your actions. If u don't wanna be called a cheap girl or b1tch.. u better get away from that guy

for fun!
- if i dont like him, why force myself to do such things, plus he already has a gf!

obviously 4 fun oni. not love.

How old r u???I'm curious..

ya la, becoz lotsa lesbian nowdays..

fixed

OMFG... TS is a retard! please stop asking stupid questions... u really sound stupid...lol

Just do it for experience.. But you won't be happy in the end, because you will feel used..

must use once in a while if not will jammed

Don't be ridiculous. If the guy can ask you to have sex, he can ask any others down the road. This guy have no respect towards his gf, himself and to you. Further to that, why need to feel the pressure to give in. Sex is not charity and remember, whatever you do, it comes with consequences. There are a lots of cheapos out there looking for free stuff, but remember these people sleeping here and there may have contracted diseases which you may not know of and medication is not cheap. Be wise and think about it.
Dont spend few minutes of enjoyment but regret for a lifetime. And yes, I agreed with others, stop communicating with your cheapo friend. He is not worth your attention. He's only interested on getting someone on the bed.

this guy is a jerk...
liar and cheats his gf at the same time...
i would say don't give him, he doesn't love u anyway

Make love only with the one we love la...That guy just wan Fxxk you...Ignore him la....Wolf...

interesting topic

make love , not war...

as long as you happy can ady la.. dun wut other ppl think here
if uh ah uh ah wiv him can make you syiokkk why not?
but ya never try never know
hohohoh

Ahem, guy or girl won't jam, there's DIY u know

Protects your virginity. You might be exposed to HIV, AIDS or any infections. No one will do screening health test if he or she is single. Trust me.

....i wonder why...is that a normal asking frens? i never dare to ask any frens. even i have gf last time..is like ....a very hard question to ask...so nowadays even friends will make the intimate moment? maybe i too scare to try my luck..haihh...

I don't know bout others, but for me, I will only feel like doing it with someone I love.

Although you actually need it at that moment...

short term fun doesnt equal to long lasting relationship.

dun give unless he knows how to treat u like a lady (Both emotionaly, physically and sexually).

Otherwise.......blow him away (No pun, and not what most of u might think).

Well if u already did it well then........nasi suda jadi bubur......

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Added on September 12, 2010, 1:53 pmYalor........i am sad at this news.........lotsa pretty girls wana fucuk girls oni. Haizzzzz.............God save Malaysia and the world.

Another point there.

phixed

Yea. Dun be foolish to think if he ask no need wear protection and do. For all u know, he got premature ejakulesyun. He done in 5mins while u poor girl waiting with ntg to enjoy with. I think thats a big bummer and stress in most relationships. Guy duno how to please girl or guy cant control himself.

If he really sincere he will talk it out. If not..........buat mcm mandi kerbau.........in 2 mins out 2 mins. Tak sempurnakan procedure.

This post has been edited by Pinarello: Sep 12 2010, 01:53 PM