of coz gals n guys can hav platonic relationship oh....even though both sides might develop "more than frens" feelings in da first place....but hey!! v r after all sexual beings who yearn 2 love n b loved......me n my best buddy instantly clicked when v first met, chatted over da phone every nite talking bout lotsa stuffs...i did fall 4 him earlier n even told him tat, guess wat? after tat incident, 2 my surprise, v become closer than b4 coz no more secrets between us ( well, tat's wat he tot ler after i said da onli secret i hav is crushing on him....hehehe)....nowadays, v stil share our common grounds, n he's more like a big bro than a guy i used 2 fall 4....actualli when u get 2 know a guy 2 one point, u wil realized tat being his best bud is da wiser than being his gf after all....and i m glad v din become more than best buds tat time ( even though he said he has feelings 4 me...) coz i might lose da best buddy in da end...he has a steady gf of 5 years now n i m still enjoying my singlehood but still hav him 2 talk 2 when i m lonely or looking 4 ways 2 tackle my latest crush!!! so having an opposite sex buddy is fun ler....