i find it pretty awkward if a best guy fren having special interests in me. its like even precaution hints of "i won't be fond of him" also no use. so i rather have socially guy frens than having 1 best guy fren to always hang out with.

yea i agree to that. disgusting can be like "wtf" and "this is wrong" and piles of goosebumps all over ur body when u just thought of it, especially those u have known for long. i doesn't matter if he's the type that "all girls will fall for", no sparks means no sparks.