i have a female friend, which i knew for 10 years. When in secondary school, many of my friend try to go after her, but none of them is success. SO, they like to use me as dating them out. Sooner, later i found out i fall in love with her, but didn't confess to her. Cos i scare to lost her.

One day, i watch a chinese love story. It's said, if u love someone, u will do anything in order she happy even though she is somebody gf. Till now, i still love her, but still keep in a distance of friend, should be call "best friend". We keep contact each other always talk about her carrier, life, love story, etc etc. Can say, i know most of her secret that her boyfriend and her very best female friend also don't know. I hope to keep maintaining this relationship until the last breath of my life. SHe is my very "best female friend"

So, gals and guys up there, in reality, it's not necessary that u wan to be with her/him so that her/him is happy. If u really love someone, u will willing to help and support her, even though she/he is someone else boyfriend or galfriend so that can be happy. That's is truth love. We human, sometimes, need to sacrifice something that's very meaningful, just for other happiness.

it's take a big desire and sacrfices to do so...
cos not easy to have good female friend's cos "irresistable"

maybe idont have the patience and strong willing